Hi,
I have tried many times to have sex with my boy friend but it was hard at first cuz I was not relaxing but finally after he got me wet and I was relaxed we did it, after it immediatly I had a shower but didnt notice any blood not even a drop even after days and it wasnt painful actually it went in easily , is this normal ?!! cuz now he is questionning my virginity...
I have tried many times to have sex with my boy friend but it was hard at first cuz I was not relaxing but finally after he got me wet and I was relaxed we did it, after it immediatly I had a shower but didnt notice any blood not even a drop even after days and it wasnt painful actually it went in easily , is this normal ?!! cuz now he is questionning my virginity...
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It's a mistake to assume that sex will be painful, or that you WILL bleed...
Many women do not experience a tearing hymen or have already had some experience (horse riding, sports, etc) that broke that seal long before.
Other women find that they will break it at a later date, with a different position... or more vigorous sex sometime.
Don't let your bf shame you into feeling bad about your experience.
What does he want? A trophy? A notch on the bedpost? Why is your virginity so important to him? I would think he would be happy that it went so well for you both. Relaxation and lube appear to have done the trick!
Hooray! That should be his concern, right?
Many women do not experience a tearing hymen or have already had some experience (horse riding, sports, etc) that broke that seal long before.
Other women find that they will break it at a later date, with a different position... or more vigorous sex sometime.
Don't let your bf shame you into feeling bad about your experience.
What does he want? A trophy? A notch on the bedpost? Why is your virginity so important to him? I would think he would be happy that it went so well for you both. Relaxation and lube appear to have done the trick!
Hooray! That should be his concern, right?
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