I'm a 17 year old girl, and have within the last few months become increasingly embarrased about the size of my labia. It is also very uncomfotable when i wear certain clothing. I know its not huge, but it is certainly noticeable and really gives me low self esteem. I am debating weather to have an op, but i have no knowledge on it whatsoever, can anyone help me? Also, it may sound silly but i feel like i can't have relationships when i know i am perfectly capable because it is so embarrasing and i often hear people, even my friends say how disgusting it is and call it things like "beef curtains" and it really crushes me, i'm too afraid to tell anyone. I think about it literally 3 times a day and it gets me down to the point where it's affecting me emotionally. I'm so afraid of operations, and am really squeamish of blood and anything like it. Please help me i don't know what to do. I don't know if i can bare the thought of all these people analysing me and operating, but at the same time i can't live with it in my sex life.
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I think this is something that a lot of girls are uncomfortable with. I, personally, am not a fan of my vagina. That may sound weird but I feel like my labia are large too. I thought about having an op but I never actually did it. I've talked to my boyfriend about it and he says that it looks totally normal to him, we all do have an over analytical view of ourselves. I do understand how this can effect you emotionally but you should know that you CAN have a relationship, guys don't love you for your labia but for YOU. If this is a surgery you are very serious about here is a website to research more: http://www.labiaplastysurgeon.com/ If you need anything else don't be afraid to ask!
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