I'm 23 and have been married for 3 years. Not once have I ever orgasmed in sex. I honestly couldn't even figure it out on masterbation until a couple of months ago. Now I find myself sneaking away after sex or while he's sleeping to relieve myself. I've noticed the only way I can get any pleasure is if I cover myself with a sheet a play with my clit over the sheet. I have to really focus or I lose it. I've tried to find my gspot, but that plan got tossed aside years ago when I got tired of trying. How can I adjust my needs to my actual sex life. I'm the first woman my husband has slept with, so he thinks that I'm enjoying myself, but really I'm just trying to rush through it :( it feels good and I love making love to him, but I get bored of faking it and I'd hate to tell him that he hasn't been able to pleasure me the last 3 years... That is the ulitmate pride destroyer. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Hi, i dont really have any adivice for you but im only 18 and dont orgasm while intercourse with my hubby and its been a year, he noes i dont orgasm so he bought me a vibrator that just sits on the clit so thats how i get plesure. Or i even do what you do over the sheets :/. I know i know im young but still id like some advice also.
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Best way for women to get an orgasm is if the guy could last in bed for more than 15 minutes without cuming, the longer he goes, the more orgasms you may get, and im only 17 and i couldnt find a solution for my girl to get an orgasm at all, and eventually she gave up and left, so i started getting into boot camps and my sargent knew i had problems so he helped me by getting me prepared with lots of training that took my mind to get foccused in those types of situations and now i could go up to 16 minutes in bed with my girl and its amazing, but my advice is to make your partner focuse in what he's doing and to not loose control easily, its just the matter of not loosing control and focusing
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Shizuka, while you are having sex place your hand down between you both and rub your clit. Your problem is not uncommon. Additionally, it may be that you take longer to cum than him so ask him to increase the amount of foreplay, tell him that you enjoy the foreplay very much and would like more.
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