im 15 years old, about 1 month ago i lost my virginity and i had sex with the same guy 3 times, and now we havent had sex. after that now ive realized i keep Masturbateing out of no were , why is that ?
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Hi Ashleeeey,
You had sex with the guy 3 times and you are still together but don't have sex anymore? Or you had sex 3 times and he left after? So after you lost your virginity you have been masturbating? Did you masturbate before you lost your virginity? The feelings that you felt during sex are very pleasurable and addictive. We are humans and are meant and hardwired to feel pleasure (we are meant to procreate, have babies; therefore sexual pleasure will be something we want all the time) which means we are going to strive to get that feeling back (just like a drug addict wants that feeling back which is why they keep doing drugs). Make sense?
Hope this helps
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Me & him werent together when we had sex, we were friends.. and well before i lost my virginity i masturbated a little bit and now after i had sex i masturbate alot and idk how to make it stop happening because it happens out of no were..
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It's completely normal, I'm 38 and still love to masturbate whenever I can and sometimes I still catch myself doing it out of nowhere. So don't question it just do it, it's healthy and normal. You probably found sex a great feeling, am I correct? Which is why you 'out of nowhere'... masturbate, your clit, g-spot or both?
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really? i thought if it was out of nowere , yes you are correct, i loved it, sometimess i want to reallly have sex sagain but i dont . and its both .
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Sex is not bad but do you want a baby right now? If not, get some birth control and start using them properly. Get into a long-term relationship with a caring and loving guy and then take things from there. Any other way is asking for trouble.
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My advice is stick to masturbating.
Your body wants sex at your age because that's the way we're designed. Not long ago humans didn't live much beyond 30 years so you had to have babies at your age to be able to raise them before you died. That doesn't work well in our society today. Also you are taking a lot of chances of getting diseases you don't want even if you are careful and there is the stress of "am I pregnant" every so often. Most of that is alleviated after getting married.
So enjoy yourself by yourself or if you find a loving partner masturbate your brains out together. Just think of the stresses of having sex before you decide to do it.
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Anyone can go to the grocery store and buy condoms. At least it's something if you insist on having to have sex. Talk to your mom though and let her know you are ready to have sex and that you want to be safe, you understand that she won't get you birth control but maybe she would be interested in getting you a dildo to pleasure yourself? I'm trying to think from a mother's point of view here and I would rather my daughter tell me the truth about sex and that she would rather use a dildo then a male. A dildo can give you lots of pleasure without the possibility of getting pregnant.
Just trying to give you options.
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Not to worry. At your age its safer and better to stick to masturbation for awhile anyway. This might sound like something you don't want to hear, but listen to this Grandfather and don't rush into sex, you have your whole life ahead of you and somebody out there will really and truly love you and not just try to get into your pants. What I'm trying to say is a few careless moments can have a huge impact on your life....and maybe not for the best. Oh yes, a discharge is usually normal...especially should you be aroused....hope this was not too much of a old goat answer for you.
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