well me and my boyfriend made love yesterday and he got his penis inserted in ma vagina it was gr8 however i never bleeded nor did it hurt.....how do i knw if i hav lost my virginity or not ........... and it was not protected i am scared ....however i knw he never emitted inside me ......well and yes i was feeling a bit irritation around my vagina and was feeling a little giddy is tht normal.......how do i knw if my hymen is broken or not plz help i am reallly worried kinda confused plz suggest a way how to find out
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Okay, bleeding is not a sure fire sign to saying if you are a virgin or not.
For example, some girls break their hymen during horseback riding. Does that mean they're not a virgin anymore? Certainly not!
But I guess it all depends on your definition of "virgin". Personally mine is that you are no longer one when you have engaged in the following: Sexual intercourse, anal sex, oral sex. Now, a bunch of people would only agree with the first one, seeing anal and oral as not the "real thing". That's fine and just a difference in opinion.
So I would say from my viewpoint that you are no longer a virgin. But here comes the very serious notes:
>Even if you did not technically lose your virginity (broken your hymen), there was still a penis in your vagina, aka you had sex.
>Even if he never ejaculated in you, he still certainly let out some pre-come.
>Not using protection is not so good. Because you know, now there is the chance for pregnancy, which may or may not be what you were going for.
>PS: How do you know he did not ejaculate?
>"Irritation around my vagina"... it could just be you feeling excited AND scared afterwards or it could be sign of a vaginal infection/STD/etc. I would certainly hope not and you should ask your boy flat out if he ever did it with anyone else.
>I do not know a way to check if your hymen is "broken" or not. Either way, this is not the most important thing here. If you and your boy are going to do it again, I would urge you to use protection ("oh it doesn't feel as good with it". It's a tiny, tiny sheath of plastic. Honestly, it won't be that drat different. Besides, if you don't want to get pregnant, this is a big help).
Not meaning to freak you out but just getting out all the things I could think of right now. Reply to me with any more concerns/responses to my statements and I'll do what I can.
For example, some girls break their hymen during horseback riding. Does that mean they're not a virgin anymore? Certainly not!
But I guess it all depends on your definition of "virgin". Personally mine is that you are no longer one when you have engaged in the following: Sexual intercourse, anal sex, oral sex. Now, a bunch of people would only agree with the first one, seeing anal and oral as not the "real thing". That's fine and just a difference in opinion.
So I would say from my viewpoint that you are no longer a virgin. But here comes the very serious notes:
>Even if you did not technically lose your virginity (broken your hymen), there was still a penis in your vagina, aka you had sex.
>Even if he never ejaculated in you, he still certainly let out some pre-come.
>Not using protection is not so good. Because you know, now there is the chance for pregnancy, which may or may not be what you were going for.
>PS: How do you know he did not ejaculate?
>"Irritation around my vagina"... it could just be you feeling excited AND scared afterwards or it could be sign of a vaginal infection/STD/etc. I would certainly hope not and you should ask your boy flat out if he ever did it with anyone else.
>I do not know a way to check if your hymen is "broken" or not. Either way, this is not the most important thing here. If you and your boy are going to do it again, I would urge you to use protection ("oh it doesn't feel as good with it". It's a tiny, tiny sheath of plastic. Honestly, it won't be that drat different. Besides, if you don't want to get pregnant, this is a big help).
Not meaning to freak you out but just getting out all the things I could think of right now. Reply to me with any more concerns/responses to my statements and I'll do what I can.
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hey thanks lotz for ur opinion its truly an eyeopener will take ur advice of using protection .......however what if he did ejaculate a bit in ....wht do i do to aviod gettin pregnant
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How would you avoid getting pregnant the next time you two have intercourse or how would you avoid getting pregnant NOW (from this one time)?
If it is the first one, there is no 100% way to keep yourself from getting pregnant. Using protection (condom/birth control/morning after pill) are all helpful in preventing pregnancy, but will not keep you perfectly safe. Perhaps using a condom AND birth control pills would give you a sense of security then.
But if you are asking me "How do I keep from getting pregnant from this time me and my boyfriend already had", well, it's probably too late for the morning after pill (right?). And even so that isn't a perfect remedy.
If some of his sperm managed to get all the way up where it needs to be to get you pregnant, then it's already there and fertilized you.
The only thing I could really recommend is getting a pregnancy test and taking it at the proper time. But try not to worry too much as that could cause false symptoms.
Notes for you: The "pull out" method, which is what you and your boyfriend appeared to have done, is not full proof at keeping girls safe from pregnancy.
Also, the ideas of washing your vagina afterwards or having sex standing up do absolutely nothing. Just in case you were thinking that because there's always some people who do.
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I sound very doom and gloom. I just really don't want young people to get themselves pregnant when they're not ready for it. I've been through similar situations so I'm very careful when talking to others about it.
But hey, pregnancy doesn't happen all the time either. It's hard enough for a load of sperm to get all the way into you and connect where it needs to. But there is always a chance so I'm trying to keep that in the open.
If it is the first one, there is no 100% way to keep yourself from getting pregnant. Using protection (condom/birth control/morning after pill) are all helpful in preventing pregnancy, but will not keep you perfectly safe. Perhaps using a condom AND birth control pills would give you a sense of security then.
But if you are asking me "How do I keep from getting pregnant from this time me and my boyfriend already had", well, it's probably too late for the morning after pill (right?). And even so that isn't a perfect remedy.
If some of his sperm managed to get all the way up where it needs to be to get you pregnant, then it's already there and fertilized you.
The only thing I could really recommend is getting a pregnancy test and taking it at the proper time. But try not to worry too much as that could cause false symptoms.
Notes for you: The "pull out" method, which is what you and your boyfriend appeared to have done, is not full proof at keeping girls safe from pregnancy.
Also, the ideas of washing your vagina afterwards or having sex standing up do absolutely nothing. Just in case you were thinking that because there's always some people who do.
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I sound very doom and gloom. I just really don't want young people to get themselves pregnant when they're not ready for it. I've been through similar situations so I'm very careful when talking to others about it.
But hey, pregnancy doesn't happen all the time either. It's hard enough for a load of sperm to get all the way into you and connect where it needs to. But there is always a chance so I'm trying to keep that in the open.
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hey dear thanks so much i really appreciate it .................wht i will do is take a pregnancy test ......will keep u posted abt it .....and hey can u suggest some birth control pills or some next day mornin pillsss......................well its my first time so very curious and scared.........and hey also wanted to ask does sex hav any side effects on my body....can i gain weight with it.......thanks again
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I'm just trying to help out.
And I'm really sorry but I don't know any birth control/morning after pills. (Funny huh?) But as a lesbian I don't have use for them. Ummm... Yeah, I don't know. Maybe look up birth control pills on wikipedia.org? Or just Google it and good companies will show up I bet.
Sex by itself having side effects? Well, if anything you might lose weight from the physical activity.
And I'm really sorry but I don't know any birth control/morning after pills. (Funny huh?) But as a lesbian I don't have use for them. Ummm... Yeah, I don't know. Maybe look up birth control pills on wikipedia.org? Or just Google it and good companies will show up I bet.
Sex by itself having side effects? Well, if anything you might lose weight from the physical activity.
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hey thanks for all ur help.......hey anywayz knw wat the pregnancy test is negative i am feelin so peaceful now ......well however will make sure will use protection alwayz.......
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I agree. the first time i had sex, i didnt bleed, it did hurt alittle bit, then it felt great. It gets better and better everytime. Im sure it helped to have "four play" with my xbf, we never had sex, but we did alot of "four play". now with my boyfriend sex is amazing and i love it.
Michelle
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