My boyfriend has a 10 & a half inch penis, will the sex be good or bad?

not puting your size estimates down but are your sure it is that big or are you taking his word for it? needless to say your boy friend is very well endowed if it is that big. but don't take his word for it as us guys sometimes have a tendency to exagerate... measureing is the only way lol.... if he does have one that size, which it is possible, im sure it could be a bit uncomfortable especially if it is large around. never had that experience haha :-D . my adviced to you would be if it is large than take it very slow, the more aroused and lubricated you are the better. it may also help to add some lube such as KY jelly as well. have you had sex before? the important thing is to make sure he respects you and your wishes and you need to let him know when enough is enough. also not having rough sex will helpa as well. the only thing else i would add is that there are numerous different sex positions available and some allow for deeper penetration while others not so much, so you may want look at some different positions and read up on them they will tell you if it allows for high or low amounts of penetration. i would obviously try the ones allowing less penetration due to his projected size...
hope this helps any questoins dont hesitate to ask us good luck and have fun!

mmm my size? of what? Lol If it's my height its 4'11. If it's not that, then tell me what do you mean by not puting my size.

Well he SAID he meassured it, idk if he's just saying that so i'll be like wow omg. & no i haven't had sex before. lol

by size i ment the size of his penis... if HE measured it and you have never seen it then Yea he deffinatly could be putting on a show. us guys tend to exagerate on size alot especially if we think that it could help us get a girl. a lot of guys with smaller penises or even average say they are large so that they wont get laughed at..... this is a really stupid thing to do i believe since if someone isnt as big as they claim the person there trying to impress is going to find out when she does see it..... so really if you havent seen it your guess is as good as mine

o.O Holy mama, he sure is a biggin %-)
If you haven't seen it yet, prepare to be shocked, but pleasantly amused :-P
Many girls would kill for a well endowed man, but it's something that you have to ease into. You will probably need several attempts before you can be comfortable with him. Patience and lubrication is important, i can't stress lubrication enough tho, whether it's natural lubrication or if it comes from a tube, you must have plenty of it.

Sex can and should be a pleasurable experience for both parties involved, but it doesn't matter what size the guy is really. A 10 inch penis has no significance over a 4 inch penis as it all depends on just how well your man knows how to use it. The only difference is the size and that's all. A well endowed man could be a jerk between the sheets and could give 2 craps about you and your sexual feelings, a not so well endowed man could be the most gentle and compassionate lover ever and concentrates on pleasing his partner with his satisfaction later.

How old is your boyfriend? If he is serious he's in a less that 1 percentaile of "huge junk"

Hi, the size of a man's penis doesn't implies whether sex is good or bad.

Fifteen.

then yes, I feel he is exaggarating(sp) his size BIG TIME, makes me think that he is about 5'2" and compensating lol. Though it is VERY possible he is 10.5 inches, but like I said I doubt it.

I do not aspire to 10.5 inches but I am 9 inches fully erect and have a 5 inch girth.My girlfriend was initially afraid when we first got intimate and to be honest the pain for her was unbearable but she was so aroused she did not ask me to withdraw.We have been together the past two years and her Vagina has naturally expanded during that time to accommodate my Penis and now she experiences very little in the way of pain during intercourse unless of course I get carried away with the strength of my thrusts into her. She is not my wife(shame on me for having another woman!) but when we get away for a night,we would normally have sex approx 5 times starting when we book into a hotel and again when we come back from having dinner and a few drinks.During the night at around 4am or 5am we would again have intercourse and again when we wake up in the morning.She does complan of being sore around and inside the Vagina however.One point I would make.If I take her from behind she does experience some pain particularly in thrusts as she says they are deeper than in the Missionary position.I will normally cum within five minutes.

One point.She has worries that if we break up she will never experience good sex with an average sized Penis

I lost my virginity at the age of 15 to the man i eventually married (now divorced) and his penis was large as well. When he laid on his back and was fully erect, it went way past his navel. He was about 9 and a half, 10 inches at best and was very thick, it looked like an anaconda o.O It took several tries but eventually things began to work but there was still some uncomfortable issues that we just couldn't fix. Due to his size there was a few positions that we just could not get into, which i think was my issue. Doggy style was a big no no as he had complete control to thrust as hard as he wanted and it hurt me. Me on top or the classic missionary position were two of the more accomodating positions for me.
Now, this is only related to me here. After him i was with a few other men and to tell the truth i enjoyed intercourse much more with an average size penis, any position worked. But due to the fact that i have a tipped uterus, intercourse could be a bit tricky at times but that is a medical complication on my part. As i said before, it doesn't matter how large or how small a man's penis is, it's all in the way he uses it. Many guys will brag about the size of their manhood as well, but totally stink in the rack.

I think large penis isn't necessary to reach the “male g-spot,” the prostate. The prostate lies within a finger's reach inside the anus.

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Hi hun my husband is 9 1/2 inches long when he is hard. And yes when you first have sex it will hurt. But it gets better. My problem is I have what most people call a "tight vagina". Which means I dont get loose which is kindof a good thing but also a bad, bc even after three years of havinf sex with my husband we still have to use plenty lubrication. No offense I doubt that your boyfriend is 10 1/2 inches long.


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I am 8 inches long and very girthy,it all depends on your body,I have been with some women that are small framed 5-0 and they handled it good in fact it seems like the bigger the woman the harder it is for them,also you did not mention your age but older women seem to take it easy and they are willing to take it with no hesitation,and what I find kind of wierd is that the average size for a male errect is 5 1/2 inches and when the older women just take it and dont hesitate leaves questions in my mind if the average is 5 1/2 so if your boy friend is 10 1/2 then he is double the size of average which means that he is 1 10th 0f 1 %...

This reminds me of a GREAT JOKE:

A traveling salesman with a one inch penis when he's hard, visits a w**** house. When he strips in the girl's room she takes one look at his penis and begins to laugh hysterically.

She looks at the guy and says, "Who the hell do you think you're going to satisfy with that little thing?"

The guy smiles and answers "ME!"

And that's the key to good sex. Don't spend an inordinate amount of time thinking about your partner. IT'S A WASTE!! Generally you both are messed up. She may lay there because you're racing like the devil to get her off. She wants to tap you on the shoulder and say, "When it's my turn to do something, LET ME KNOW." I love teaching human sexuality. We are so screwed up in this country it makes me sad and/or I can't stop laughing. First, you both need to SLOW DOWN. You don't get points for cumming in two pushes. First, you must ERASE the STUPID IDEA that the goal of sex is orgasm......... NO NO NO. If you do that you miss the BEST PART. They call it the "Divine Torture." Both parties should be looking to get as hot as they can while helping the other do the same, BUT IT'S A 50-50 proposition.

Every course, every seminar I get questions about size. Sorry, but that cracks me up too. A man can send a girl to the moon with nothing but his little finger or the tip of his penis. So all you giants out there, the other nine inches are nice, and take longer to go all the way in and come all the way out. REGARDLESS OF SIZE if you don't know how to operate your equipment it's going to break down. If you spend all your time on your partner, you wind up exhausted and having forgotten EVERY SECOND OF THE SEX. Let me say; PEOPLE WHEN THE SEX IS GOOD THERE ARE PARTS THAT STAND OUT WHEN IT'S OVER TWO OR THREE HOURS AFTER YOU START. You read me right. Climax lasts under a minute, in most cases, and can last longer in some. I don't care if you shoot for three or four minutes, are you telling me, all that wonderful teasing and nibbling and licking (TO AND FROM BOTH OF YOU) is lost. I had a student come to see me last week all messed up. He said, "She just lies there." I said, "Do you ever lie on top of her and roll her over so she's on top of you? Have you ever had her bend over the bed and enter her vagina from behind (this allows you to bit the back of her head and lick her in places you didn't know were there.

Also, men think their penis and balls are the only sexual parts we have. Many women haven't ever gone on Safari to find all her fun zones. HELP HER SEARCH. AND LET HER HELP YOU SEARCH. Stop all the stupid rules. NO HOLDS BARRED. EXPLORE ME ANYWHERE AND I'LL TELL YOU HOW IT FEELS......... AND WHEN I SAY "EVERYWHERE" I MEAN EVERYWHERE.

We miss most of the circus by only watching the juggler. Man would that bore the hell out of me. Half the time I'll suggest we don't touch ANY PRIMARY SEX ORGANS. Bite his nipples. I am sick to death of hearing two things from guys; first is, my nipples don't do anything for me, zip, zilch, nada. Well, of course they don't, you haven't made them part of the show. So you work on them when you're together and alone. Pinch them and pull them at the same time.......... and I mean "Ouch!!" within reason...... She can nibble, but I like my nipples to feel like they might explode the next day from so much use. I LOVE THEM, and it took me nearly two months to wake them up.......... and I got laid a lot (I worked in a hospital, and knew most of the nurses well)...... While I'm here, I had one rule that was said PRIOR TO THE BEST SEX SHE EVER HAD and that was, "This is all for fun. I'm not looking for a girlfriend. In addition to working here, I teach high school, and go to grad school. I could only have sex with you between classes while you jumped on my lap as I rode a wheelchair to my next class. So I got sex where I could and developed a reputation as a real bastard, but a lot of fun. Even back then sex went on, unless there were a lot of emergencies, for two hours AT THE MINIMUM. I couldn't tell you how many times I came. That was NEVER that important for me, and as a result SHE had a blast. She wasn't worried that I wasn't having fun, believe me everyone on the floor knew I was having a good time....... and sometimes the floor above us and the one below us. If neither of you is making NOISE, then you're both tense. Guys you'll start to have fun when you give your penis a voice......... That's right, not what YOU are thinking, what your penis is thinking like, "OH WOW............ TIGHTER BABE......... FASTER....... GO ON LET HER HEAD HIS THE WALL......... WHATEVER......... DON'T STOP YOU DUMB ASS. BACK TO ME......IF I SHOOT A LOAD, PLAY WITH HER FOR FIVE MINUTES AND START ALL OVER AGAIN. HAVE HER RIDE EVERYTHING, AND PUT HER IN EVERY POSITION THAT NO ONE ELSE HAS DONE. ONE OF MY FAVORITES WAS HAVING HER ALMOST DOING A HEADSTAND, AND THEN PLOWING THE SOUTH FORTY FROM ABOVE DOWN INTO HER. I PUT HER ON THE DESK OR GOT ON THE DESK MYSELF. And the more places her hands and fingers went, the more likely I might actually break my rule and see her again.

GOOD LUCK,

C