Hello. So I have been dating someone with bi polar for 5 months , although she has been diagnosed with depression anxiety and ADHD. All signs point to bi polar (frequent mood change depressive and manic episodes , lack of sleep during hyermania. 12 hour sleep during depressive episodes. Heightened sexual interests. Insecurity and paranoid thoughts. Attention issues. Sensitive behaviour. Very irritable) . Anyway I am very in love with her. Although the main issue is that she keeps leaving me. As much as I can understand that she gets scared I’ll leave in the future so she tries to leave first. And she takes me for granted which she has told me. I don’t know what to do when she’s going through a depressive stage and leaves me every second day. It hurts. I’ve made my world her. And I’m not sure if part of the issue is that I should be more distant and not base my life around her considering she’s always leaving me. I don’t know what to do. I feel like hell being so in love with someone who keeps leaving and not being happy with me. Then coming back and saying they were just sad. What can I do to make this work when I’ve discussed it multiple times and she says she acts without thinking. She’s seeing a psychologist and taking meds but clearly hasn’t been diagnosed with bi polar. And doesn’t seem open to the idea of it. How can I make this work. I feel like I’ve tried so hard.