My partner and i used to be very sexual, now we barley do anything?

Cam91186207 over a year ago

I'm 20 years old and gay, my partner and i used to be very sexual, now we barley do anything? He says my penis hurts him and is big, we use lube and add if needed. my penis is 7 inches long and thick. what can i do to help us both have a more pleasurble time. thanks

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rapidfire1000035075 over a year ago

I am sorry to hear that you are having problems. Has your boyfriend ever been the giver rather then the rather than the receiver? I have hear of a spray that can be used as somewhat of a local anesthetic/relaxant that helps relax the anus so that it does not hurt as much. It may also make it to where your partner cant feel the initial penetration. Other than that, I would suggest going slower.

Good luck

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Cam91186207 over a year ago

He says hes always been bottom, but has topped a few times. Do you know what that spray is called? He say's I'm the biggest he's had. I'm not huge but fairl deciant sized. thanks for your imput.:-|

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rapidfire1000035075 over a year ago

Is he more comfortable with being on bottom? Is it personal preference?

Since I am not allowed to post links inside a thread, the easiest thing may be to Google "Anal numbing spray." You can also search for "Anal Desensitizing Spray." I got several results and like diesel fuel, it is expensive as hell for a tiny bottle. Just remember that it is sort of a localized anesthetic which may may result in your boyfriend not feeling anything. Also, make sure he is not allergic to any known chemicals. If he is, he may have an allergic reaction to it.

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Cam91186207 over a year ago

Ok thank you, Well I think b4 we have anal sex we can do some forplay and loosen him up, and try it that way. Thanks agin

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