I'd just like to say that I'm not inexperienced to anal sex. Ive had it many times so I know to use lots of lube, foreplay and relaxing. But even with all that sometimes when Im having sex and my partners penis goes in and it goes in a bit too deep it hurts. I assume that it's hitting my prostate and thats why its hurting. Why does this happen? Is there any way to stop the pain or something I can do to stop it from hurting?
I can only take a few inches before it hurts too much. I try to keep my partners penis there to sort of relax it but that doesnt work and it still hurts. As long as my partner does not go in all the way it feels great but I'd still like to be able to take it all the way. Any advice from people with personal experience?
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This is not going to be personal experience but more logical thought so, here it goes.
Does this happen in all sexual positions or just a few? If it is, it may be the angle of approach.
You can always use a de-sensitizing spray or lube. That may help with the pain.
Are you ever the giver rather than the receiver?
Have you been with the same partner for some time? Is this the first time you are having this problem or has it always been this way?
Does this happen in all sexual positions or just a few? If it is, it may be the angle of approach.
You can always use a de-sensitizing spray or lube. That may help with the pain.
Are you ever the giver rather than the receiver?
Have you been with the same partner for some time? Is this the first time you are having this problem or has it always been this way?
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It's in almost all sexual positions but I find laying on my stomach makes it slightly easier to take more. Could just be my imagination tho.
Weird question but is it possible that my colon is shorter or something and for whatever reason it means Im able to take less inside me? I thought when it hit the prostate it was supposed to feel good.
Sometimes I give it and thats not a problem. Just taking it. And yes same partner for 3 years now and its always been like this. Even with my other partners its the same
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using lub will reduce 99% of the pain you feel. If yur man goes in without no lub then theres more of a chance that he could rip yur anus.
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The best way to help with the pain is buying this aroma called POPPERS. Poppers is a aroma that you sniff(perfectly legal), it comes in a small bottle and when you sniff if it brings you a rush of relaxation to your anal region, for girls vagina. The effect will wear off within 1-3 minuets unless you keep sniffing the scent. Poppers is very common among the gay community for couples that experience pain during anal sex. ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** web
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