I am a healthy 69 y.o. man and have sex with much younger girls.
My present gf wants me to use a condom. I am not accustomed to use condoms and it makes me very often impossible to ejaculate, even though having good sex and getting orgasms by my partner. It seems to me strange to put my sperm into a rubber thing...and this is very disturbing to me. On the other side, my partner doesn't want to use presently other prevention methods (also becouse our relation is very recent). Do you know something about this situation? Thank you in advance 8-|
My present gf wants me to use a condom. I am not accustomed to use condoms and it makes me very often impossible to ejaculate, even though having good sex and getting orgasms by my partner. It seems to me strange to put my sperm into a rubber thing...and this is very disturbing to me. On the other side, my partner doesn't want to use presently other prevention methods (also becouse our relation is very recent). Do you know something about this situation? Thank you in advance 8-|
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It sounds partially, mind over matter... in a way you must not dwell on it seeming un-natural, strange, disturbing or odd to deposit sperm into the condom. Emotions can ruin sexual gratification quickly.
It seems you have communicated to her and she doesn't want to use other methods right now.. you need to respect that, as it is her body, she wants to be safe, be it for pregnancy reasons or disease reasons.
If you still do not want to because you can not ejaculate, I suggest to try different types of condoms.. they have some that are ultra-thin, texturized for your pleasure, extra tight and there is a new one that has a vibrating rings attached.
Then also in conjunction with that try to get your negative feelings about condoms out of your head. It may be difficult at first, but if you still have this feeling of it being strange or disturbing, ejaculation will continue to be almost impossible.
Think romantic thoughts, have more foreplay time, change up positions, make the mood sexy, talk to her about what feels good. Do not think about the condom on you as much as feel the feelings of the moment. The condom is not a barrier preventing sexual feelings or satisfaction, it is just a bit of protection, protecing the one you are with.
When you are getting close, take it off and ejaculate onto her stomach or chest... it doesn't always have to be inside of her vagina in a condom.
THEN if none of that works then you may want to find a partner who is willing to have sexual intercourse unprotcted.... BUT you must communicate that to her up-front and rightaway otherwise there will be hurt feelings and it may all seem to be a waste of time.
It seems you have communicated to her and she doesn't want to use other methods right now.. you need to respect that, as it is her body, she wants to be safe, be it for pregnancy reasons or disease reasons.
If you still do not want to because you can not ejaculate, I suggest to try different types of condoms.. they have some that are ultra-thin, texturized for your pleasure, extra tight and there is a new one that has a vibrating rings attached.
Then also in conjunction with that try to get your negative feelings about condoms out of your head. It may be difficult at first, but if you still have this feeling of it being strange or disturbing, ejaculation will continue to be almost impossible.
Think romantic thoughts, have more foreplay time, change up positions, make the mood sexy, talk to her about what feels good. Do not think about the condom on you as much as feel the feelings of the moment. The condom is not a barrier preventing sexual feelings or satisfaction, it is just a bit of protection, protecing the one you are with.
When you are getting close, take it off and ejaculate onto her stomach or chest... it doesn't always have to be inside of her vagina in a condom.
THEN if none of that works then you may want to find a partner who is willing to have sexual intercourse unprotcted.... BUT you must communicate that to her up-front and rightaway otherwise there will be hurt feelings and it may all seem to be a waste of time.
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Thank you, Disy33loca!
1) As I told, I am 69yo and my sexual potence is greatly reduced, particularly after 65yo.
2) I'll try thinner condoms, even though the psychological feeling of ejaculating into rubber will remain.
3) I had twice partners who were so able to put thin condoms on me without me noticing it. Rather soon I understood it and the situation was again poor for my ejaculation. But, before noticing it, I felt able to ejaculate. This shows again the psychological nature of this fact.
4) I always do much foreplay, mostly to attain her orgasm (usually more than one), even before penetration. But it excites myself too.
5) As to my ejaculation, I usually cum into her mouth, with good satisfaction.
6) Finally I think that situation will change when we will know us better, in the meaning that she will accept having sex without condom. I love this very young partner and she could be my third wife.
8) Freddy
1) As I told, I am 69yo and my sexual potence is greatly reduced, particularly after 65yo.
2) I'll try thinner condoms, even though the psychological feeling of ejaculating into rubber will remain.
3) I had twice partners who were so able to put thin condoms on me without me noticing it. Rather soon I understood it and the situation was again poor for my ejaculation. But, before noticing it, I felt able to ejaculate. This shows again the psychological nature of this fact.
4) I always do much foreplay, mostly to attain her orgasm (usually more than one), even before penetration. But it excites myself too.
5) As to my ejaculation, I usually cum into her mouth, with good satisfaction.
6) Finally I think that situation will change when we will know us better, in the meaning that she will accept having sex without condom. I love this very young partner and she could be my third wife.
8) Freddy
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