Now I like don't want anything to do with guys anymore and keep thinking what if I like girls, its so hard and confusing

It's so. Funny.now thoses days I used to like boys and stuff like. That. Whiling growninh up. And. I feel like. I
Been so
Long whith out a guy. And. When. Ever I try to. Get whiyh w guy. It's like so hard to xplane how I put it. I have not been whith a guy in so long. And when I try to get Whitt one and it
Dose
Not even. Work out ? maybe. Girls are the way

I have 5 boyfriends. And none of them. Did not work out so
I am thinking. That God wants me to be whith a lady I
Have not found any. Girls
In my
Life. And something new. Yet to come to me I can't lie I
Allways. Wanted a girfriend. I gusse. My past when Inwas a child bad Bad experience whiling while growing up I had confusion. ?

It's because u have a personality that obsesses over every thought that is fed to her mind!!try focussing on your career that way you will b very successful bcz of ur personality and NO you are not a lesbo just stop obsessing over the thought...and if you want try staying away from ur gfs for sometime and please stop watching lesbian porn or any lesbian stuff!

Recently I just chatted with a gay friend,after some time I wondered whats like to be gay and what if I would be,after some time i started to feel more attracted to boys than girls,and I keep denying that I am gay, could this be confussion and get better over time or is it more serious stuff and I gotta see a doctor?

Hi Guest
How old are you?
Part of growing and developing is discovering your sexuality.
It could just be curiosity that has you feeling more attracted to boys.
You are the only one that knows your sexuality and soon enough it will become clear to you.
For some if they are gay coming to terms with it can be difficult.
Rest assured this is not a serious issue and you don't need to see a doctor straight, gay or bi your just fine.
You are discovering who you are and questioning sexuality can be part of that.

OMG ME TOO I KEEP CRYING ABOUT IT IT'S LIKE MY BRAIN DOES WANT TO LET ME BELIEVE THAT I AM STRAIGHT AND EVERY TIME I TELL MYSELF IM NOT CUZ I'M PRETTY SURE WE HAVE HOCD, IT KEEP SAYING THATS I AM A f*****g LESBIAN THAT I AM AN ACCEPTION ... AND WHAT I REALLY ATE ABOUT THIS, IT'S THAT IT CAME OUT FORM NO WHERE. I KEEP THINKING THAT I AM NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Hi, I am having the exact same problem!! Like the exact same, and I'm 14. but I have found and been diagnosed with OCD. I'm not diagnosing you at all but it sounds very very like what is happening to me and I recommended you read hocd on moodsmith. Just search up HOCD moodsmtih. It helped me and I'm still in this thing - ITS THE MOST ANNOYING THING EVER - i feel so freaked out around girls and I'm always checking myself to see if I am aroused. But that only makes it worse in the long run. My advice is to have faith because if you liked boys your whole life (like me) then you have nothing to worry about your sexuality doesn't change just like that. Don't worry :)

I haven't related to something so much in my life omg. I'm 14 and I have OCD so I know that I have hocd and it sounds like you do too! But even still I know it's hocd but my mind still makes me think that I am lesbian when I've liked boys my whole life. Smh it's so annoying.

Also, the arousal can also come with the problem of hocd which only makes it worse. It's to do with the amygdala. I also went to a psychologist about this and he told me about it anyway I won't go into it you can read about it online, but you have to train your mind every time it tries to check yourself, that this is hocd thoughts

I am spot on the exact same oh my god. I’m so glad other people feel like this, I know I have hocd but yet my mind try’s to tell me I’ll never like a boy again and that I’m lesbian but I don’t even know like ugh. It makes me overthink and it interrupts with my life like study, exams and even eating because I feel so sick to the stomach about it all. I’ve always liked boys but I used to get bored quickly (I have a very impatient nature, I get bored with everything and I mean everything from hobbies to school to people) but still I always thought about kissing them all the time. I just got out of a relationship, one where it was the first time I was sexually aroused by a boy (btw I am 14) and I think that opened up that side of me. But now since I broke up I am not aroused by any other boy , which I know is normal and I also haven’t reallt put myself out there, but it made me think oh god what if I’m lesbian!!! And as I have OCD I became obsessed and now it actually makes me check if I’m aroused around my friends and it’s intrusive thoughts and I just want girls as friends!!! But sometimes it makes me feel aroused by girls, at first I freaked out but I realise that is a part of hocd because it happened at every thing a girl did because I would check myself which brought attention to that etc. but I don’t want to kiss or have sex with one!! But atm I’m not theeee most attracted to boys ether. Now it’s made me go off boys and I find it hard to get aroused even by my ex. But when I do get turned on all I want is my ex bf and I think that says Enough that I am straight but it’s so hard to get out of this loop. Oh and I’m going to a psychologist about this and my ocd so I’m not looking for help, but I just thought I’d share for anyone else struggling with this problem!

^^ also, I used to always want to like do stuff like sex w my ex bf but somehow now I’m not attracted to it ? Ever since this thing came about and it’s freaking me out and it’s hard to talk to my psychologist about the arousal problem especially because my parents are there I don’t exactly want them knowing I wanted to do stuff w my ex hahaha