i dont know what it is but even with masturbation i cant orgasm i would really love to feel tht big " o" everyone is tlking bout .... but not even my man can get me to one ive tried every position but still nothing i really want one some one give me advice please
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I never had one till I found my boyfriend that I'm with now. Maybe you're just not with the right person. Usually masturbation can do it but with the guy he might not be that person to give you one so you just might have to find other ways. Have you tried vibrators?
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Have you talked to a doctor about it? And when it does go away do you just stop trying?
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Hm well all the advice I can give you without you seeing a doctor is make sure you have foreplay, a lot of it can help, make sure it's not cold in the room, the hotter usually is the better, light some candles, don't forget to pee before you start so it doesn't become an issue, make sure to have clit action happens since its the most sensitive. If you haven't tried all of this already. Just keep searching the web also if nothing works find a doc.
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Alot of times Us girls have so much emotions and things going on in our head that we get distracted really easily to have an orgasm. On top of that.. you wanting to have one makes you try harder and usually for me if I think about having one I can't have one. Clear your mind and think more about how good it feels and how turned on you are and keep the thought out of your mind about having an orgasm. Deep breaths.. the more you relax your body instead of tensing up like we do when it feels good the easier it is to orgasm. I almost never have orgasms when having just having sex. I need alot of work and sometimes it takes so long my mind gets bored and I lose it. You should get a bullet. When your on top with your boyfriend they are so conveniant to slip between you guys and just keep grinding. If you feel like you gotta pee after ahwhile that probably means your close to orgasm. Take deep breaths and it will come. Just gotta keep trying new things to see what you like. Maybe try roleplaying.. like dressing up sexy that usually turns me on. I like to get choked while playing with my clit with one leg down and one leg up on his shoulder.. that usually gets me pretty close to orgasm.. and then he switches! lol. Try.. candles that make you turned on. Try being blindfolded and have him play with you with a vibrator.. that way you don't have to worrya bout how you look cuz you cant see.. you can lose yourself in it. Good luck!
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ok thank you .... im just worried bc hes a new boyfriend and is hung up on feeling the big o too i just dont know what to do
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just focus on how good it feels.. how much you love having sex.. explore each others bodies... if he is a new boyfriend.. then it could take him a while to figure out your body.. what touches you like.. the technique. Don't worry about orgasms.. thats not the whole point to having sex... its about connecting with that person and having fun. You don't always have to cum to make it feel good and have a good time.
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