It is a heart wrenching situation. My wife has gained considerable weight (she is well over 400 lbs now) over the course of our marriage. She has blessed me with 5 wonderful children. I have always been supportive of her and always complimentary of her in all ways. I never joke about fat people, and have defended her when I hear any snide comments.
I still adore her completely. However, the combination of menopause, getting older and obesity has rendered her devoid of any sexual desire. She blames it on menopause, the fact that she no longer feels desirble and her lack of mobility and pain trying to get into a maintain sexual positions as reasons she cannot do it any longer. She goes on a new diet about every month, and can't seem to stick with it for long.
I don't know what to do. I truly want to help her live her best life and we get along perfectly fine outside of this area.
I still adore her completely. However, the combination of menopause, getting older and obesity has rendered her devoid of any sexual desire. She blames it on menopause, the fact that she no longer feels desirble and her lack of mobility and pain trying to get into a maintain sexual positions as reasons she cannot do it any longer. She goes on a new diet about every month, and can't seem to stick with it for long.
I don't know what to do. I truly want to help her live her best life and we get along perfectly fine outside of this area.
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I’m in same situation with my husband and father of my 2 kids. I get on him about it but I guess I haven’t really done anything to show I’m serious about his weight. I stay in shape and want sex and he doesnt. I don’t know what to do.
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Take accountability the only reason you are FAT and over weight is because you choose to be! You don’t eat the calories/ icecream / soda/ candy or that other c**p you shove down your pie hole! Loose the weight or get divorced!
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