painful intercourse & libido gone 2 years after childbirth

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ahmunaeatchoo wrote:

Hi, new here & really need some help! Back story: I am a married, 21 year old female, my child will be 2 years old in 2 months. I had a very normal pregnancy and vaginal delivery with no tearing. My husband and I waited 8 weeks after baby to become sexual again. Since I had my child, my libido is gone. The only time I am aroused & actually wanting sex is when I'm PMSing. All the other time, sex is painful & I'm not into it. My husband is more well endowed than the average guy. This wasn't a problem before, but now if he goes in too deep or too far, it is so painful. I have no problem with lubrication. Excuse the graphic detail, but this is the only way I know how to explain how it feels. It feels like he is hitting that wall in between the uterus and the vaginal canal and that is where it's painful. I can feel it all into my stomach, almost like really really bad menstrual cramps. I don't know if the area is bruised or puffy or..I have no clue! Hence, why I am here asking for help. I am wondering if any other moms deal with this, this far post pregnancy. I figured it was just because I had a new baby, but now, almost 2 years later, it's worse. I feel so bad, I used to always want sex and it was never painful and now I have absolutely no interest and it hurts like hell! Should I just see a gynecologist? Any advice is much appreciated, thank you!

Hi, your problem came up while I did a Google search. I'm 25 w a 2.2 year old and your issue is exactly what I'm going threw, its so awful. Strain on marriage and sex life big time. I've had cyst removed but I know that's not what it was the pain never felt like it was coming from way way to high. So cysts came out a year ago and still painful painful sex, no change. I'm hoping you'll see this and reply. I know exactly how you , word for word your problem in the exact of mine.