Love this answer. However, I think it would be legit to ask him to do it in private ... or for you to get up and leave the room. Shoulda seen my neighbor when she got a new kitten that clawed all over her legs and things. She was busy with that, LOL.
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While this behavior may not be considered normal in today's culture, I would point out that it's physiologically beneficial from an evolutionary standpoint. It, as well as nail biting booger eating etc, has been proven to be behaviour developed over thousands of years for the purpose getting potentially infectious bacteria into the stomach where it can be recognized without the body succumbing , so that when it when it comes in contact with those same bacteria in another way it already has immunities built up. It is not the root behavior that signals a psychological problem, but one's inability to stop the behavior that they themselves consider shameful. Just like a drug addiction or chronic masturbation.
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I'm sorry to disagree, but people who are intimate put a lot worse or disgustings things in their mouths. Oral sex is done and widely enjoyed and yet our genitals are right next to where we urinate and/or deficate. Also, should spouses who eat meat be considerd disgusting because their partner is a vegetarian.
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So oral sex is okay but scab eating isn't, that's even worse in my opinion, tasting someone else's bodily fluids, at least scabs and boogers come from your own body lol
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hello sorry that you are going thru this. I have the same problem as your husband. I went to the doctor today and he said I have pica. a eating disorder
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personally, I eat my scabs and bite my nails and I find people who can't put English sentences together a total turn off. I think this is a gross incompetence but hey, we are all human at the end of the hard working day so who cares?
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I have to agree with the grossness of kissing someone who eats their scabs. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have known one another for 43 years. He is a wonderful person, but he has horrible habits. I cannot kiss him without being repulsed, but I do love him. He ended up in the hospital last year with MRSA due to his scab picking and had to have numerous surgeries, and now has a huge scar across the back of his neck. I noticed that once he and I started dating that I started getting infections (thrush) in my throat and mouth. I am a very hygienic person and always keep my mouth clean and had never had this before. I spoke to him about the bacteria in his mouth and his horrific breath since he asked why I never kiss him anymore. He has done well with the breath odor at least, but still does not ever want to brush his teeth. It is very difficult to have an up close and personal relationship with someone you love, and I do not want to leave him, but what kind of a loving relationship can one have when they are put off by the others really gross habits as scab eating? What else does he eat? That question is always in the back of my head. I always thought OCD was a mental diagnosis for someone who had to have perfect order and cleanliness all around them. This is clearly not him. I must look into the OCD thing and get to understanding it a bit more me thinks !
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I bet you have no problem with him eating your vag, and that thing bleeds every month. talk about gross. if you stop kissing men because of what they put in their mouths, you'll find life is pretty lonely.
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Deal breaker? You married the guy. There are no "deal breakers". Should have thought about this before you chose to get married. Marriage is for life. Also, "creating distance" and not telling him why is completely unfair to him...and considering a symptom of a health condition to be a cause to consider leaving the man you married makes you a horrible wife and personin general. Maybe I shouldn't be so harsh, since you are just a product of our throw away culture...but seriously...you suck.
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You may be going to school and seem to be functioning normally, but there is NOTHING normal about eating scabs. It's an underlying condition of something else such as OCD, Pica, etc... If eating scabs were normal, people would walk around in public doing it. Please seek advise from a doctor before you scar your body up or develop an infection!
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