Hello , my name is kaylaa . I recently turned 13 in april . I lost my virginity on Friday May 12/13 2011 . I lost it to someone i trust with all my heart and love . Were just friends , and plan to be somethinq more... It was our first time and we were both under the influence . After sex it wasnt awkward at all and we were very comfortable with eachother . We didnt even think to use a condom . I really wish i would have used one so i wouldn't be so worried now . He finqered me first , than put it in . He pulled out many times . It felt very qood and my mind was not focused on all of the consequences . I have no regret for havinq sex with that boy . I enjoyed it and he didnt make me do anything that i didn't want . The day afer sex i had this really bad constipation and threw up , recently i've been peeinq alot and white stuff has been cominq out of my vagina . I havent told my parents about the unprotected sex because i have gotten in so much trouble for smokinq weed , ditchinq , and just beinq rude && im scared out of my mind to see my parents reaction of i ever were to tell them. Idk if im pregnant . Im to young and have plenty dreams && i do not want to f**k up my life . The only people who know about sex is the boy i had sex with , && my 3 bestfriends .
Its sad i cant tell my sister because she will judge . Idk wat to do && im very scared and need answers ! If i am pregnant i know im going to have to wait and see more symptoms .... No idea how i would inform my parents without them killing me && my '' baby '' . Please HELP . If i do come ot pregnant i do not belive in abortion or adoption . If i wasnt ready for the challenges than why did i have sex ? It alot to process . And im very worried . Got a few more days til its a week after sex and i will see the outcome && update a post ! I hope for the best , and no matter what happens ima take responsibility and make sure every lesson was learned . So before loosing your virginity make sure your ready for it , && all the consequences that lay ahead . Im only 13 but mature enough to take responsibilty .
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First off, your 13, your too young for this. i understand better then most that, you hearing that just pisses you off more. but you are. Don't do it again. its not the taking responsibility that matters, its that your body, may not be capable to "have" a baby, when that time comes, You do need to tell your parents, older sister, brother Ect. if you don't want to tell any of them, buy a pregnancy test, there are no age limits on them, if you do make sure you take at least two. If you need any advice/Help, feel free to contact me.
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god, your only 13 that is the biggest risk!
im 16 and i have had sex with my boyfriend many times before but im still too worried to have sex without a condom! .. your a brave girl!
my mum eventually found out about me and my boyfriend and i know you properly wouldnt like to hear this but it is a horrible feeling knowing you went behind there back and trust but the next day or so you feel 1000 times better about yourself knowing there isnt any lies going on, and that youd find its alot better having someone with you during this, if you want to start having sex at such a young age you really need to consider what may go on, and now that youve started you should possibly go to the doctors for the yearly injections etc, and pray to god you get your period next to keep you outt of more trouble!!!!
hope this helps
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hi kayla
Im proud that you have acknowledge that if you wasnt ready to take up the consequences y am i having sex? but hunz it looks like that you could be pregnant because u said that u and him did not use a condom and after you had sex you did not take a morning after pill as well...so what you should do is get a home pregnancy test and c if your pregnant or you can tell ur parentz....i kno that it will be hard to face them on what you did and they might be heartbroken about it but ur not left with many options here....
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