post vasectomy pain 3 years after?

I don't know where to begin. My life was never the same after vasectomy also. I like most guys didn't notice that my life had changed that much but sooner or later everyone pays. There is no such thing as a free lunch. Every time I had an orgasm felt like getting kicked in the groin.I had 2 reversals and I still don't know what other health problems are caused by it. It is the worst decision anyone can make. Besides we don't pick our kids they choose us.

Had my vasectomy reversed after a year. Sex became pointless!

I was told the same - little or no pain - virtually 100% success with virtually no chance of long term pain (1 in a thousand) The reality is this - this is by far the worse thing I have ever done - it is 8 months and I have pain continuously. I cant walk or stand for long, sex life is almost no existent and hurts and feels completely different, going to the toilet hurts. I am completely different as a person. It has destroyed my life. I am on constant strong pain killers to try and combat it. I cannot work, play with the children, or even do the most basic things that I took for granted. I feel like there is nothing I can do. I am depressed and every day I wish I was dead. I was lied to by the doctors and feel conned into agreeing to something that has such terrible consequences. I am disgusted by the medical profession and all the pro sites that trumpet how safe this is despite lots of credible research that shows this to be a problem on a great scale (between 10-30%) I think this problem should be well known and not downplayed -if there is anyone reading this that knows how we could do this please contact me and I will do everything I can to help.

Thanks

Jon

I've had major issues with my vasectomy too. The pain is tolerable most of the time, but I have a semi-permanent lump on the bottom of my right testicle. It showed up not long after my procedure 3 years ago. Varies in size and severity but it's always there.

The more sexually active I am, the bigger and more painful it gets. When it's really bad, it hurts to the touch, hurts to sit down, and sometimes hurts to lay down or walk. Heat helps a little, rest helps, time helps - but I haven't found a solution other than waiting for it to go away.

From what I've read, I'm guessing that I have a "bad seal" on the right side and I develop a sperm granuloma every time I climax. Pretty sure this is the case as it goes away if I refrain from sexual activity for a few days / weeks...

I feel your pain. I wish I could die too.

Mate I was told it was all in my head. I only got mine reversed 2 years ago after 25years of been fob off . I could not afford the $12000 till all though years after. Unfortunately I also suffered from ED and the main cause was pain. No pain after reversal. Vasectomy cost me badly. Worse decision I ever made

I am 76 yrs old and had my vasectomy when I was 28, have had discomfort ever since.

I had minie 3 years ago and prior to vasectomy I'd say that most days I didn't notice my testicles were down there short of the need to relocate, scratch etc. On good days I know they're there, other days dull pain feeling, worse days sharp jab.. thankfully those days are less frequent. They don't drop and raise (cold/hot temps) like they used too and they are more swollen and sensitive than ever before. Intially painful first 6 months. My wife and her friends work in health care and initially I think they all thought I was being dramatic and sensitive about it. It was a "take one for the team" mindset. My gut feeling told me not to do it but being pressurized and told how easy and wonderful it would be I did it. Big regret. Big, big regret. All the wonderful info I got prior to getting one has gotten totally quiet and nobody talks to me about it anymore.... I think the comments others make are accurate although I have no scientific evidence to prove it.. which is if you have high sperm count and need to "release" frequently don't go near this procedure!