IM LIKE CRYING RIGHT NOW, i am so scared and confused and i dont know what to do, my boobs are sore and im having lower pain in my stomach and im so scared and i CANNOT be pregant... i had sex like 13 days ago and im so scared we didnt use a condom ( WHICH I AM SO STUPID FOR NOT USEING ONE!!!) my father will kill me if im pregnat casue my sister got pregnat when she was 15 and he thinks im am gonna be just like her and she is pregant again and shes 21but im 13 and i need help.. i will litlerly die or if i am, possibley kill myself.. help!! he pulled out 5mins before he came but i know its still possible to get pregnate from pre-cum and i dont wanna be... im so scared and parnoid and im eating alot and stuff and i dont know if its just nerves but i need some cerious hellppp>>.. ... try to give me advice fast... please.. .im think im am going to have a nervous break down soon.... im so scared... help me!!!
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Questionable take a moment and close your eyes with a few deep breaths. You need to calm down first so you can be rational. Being pregnant is not the end of the world, as I'm sure your sister learned the hard way. Yes parents can be disappointed, and if your father already has negative views of you because of what you sister did that makes it difficult. However you do not need to follow in her footsteps if YOU choose to not.
You are very young to be having sex, and I am glad that you have realized not using protection if you are going to have sex, is so important. It is unfortunate that you had to learn this way however. Yes you can get pregnant with pre-cum, and for young men they might not always know or understand when they are ejaculating or how much they have before they think they are safe to pull out.
If it has been 13 days since you last had sex. you should be able to take a pregnancy test tomorrow or the day after. You can buy them at some dollar stores and they tend to be very accurate. If it is negative please see your school counselor and your older sister, talk to them about having sex, getting you protection, and helping you to not have sex at all.
Please do not harm yourself, that will not do anything to help you or your family. In fact all that will do is leave your family torn, your friends feeling guilty, and many other things. Depression and suicidal thoughts are extremely serious and I beg for you to speak to your school counselor or do a search on line for help lines. Before you do anything, please try to contact me via e-mail; I check it regularly. It's PageStory through Gmail.com
You are very young to be having sex, and I am glad that you have realized not using protection if you are going to have sex, is so important. It is unfortunate that you had to learn this way however. Yes you can get pregnant with pre-cum, and for young men they might not always know or understand when they are ejaculating or how much they have before they think they are safe to pull out.
If it has been 13 days since you last had sex. you should be able to take a pregnancy test tomorrow or the day after. You can buy them at some dollar stores and they tend to be very accurate. If it is negative please see your school counselor and your older sister, talk to them about having sex, getting you protection, and helping you to not have sex at all.
Please do not harm yourself, that will not do anything to help you or your family. In fact all that will do is leave your family torn, your friends feeling guilty, and many other things. Depression and suicidal thoughts are extremely serious and I beg for you to speak to your school counselor or do a search on line for help lines. Before you do anything, please try to contact me via e-mail; I check it regularly. It's PageStory through Gmail.com
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