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Sure i would take your advice...And we too have planned a "no" for closeness hereafter till we are happily married...
Abt my health i have again developed some pain in my lower abdomen...may be the cause of upcoming periods....planning to wait for two days to see the reality of the pain...how far will be the gap between a brownish discharge and upcoming periods..i mean how many days??
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Dear Nishitha
I think your 'closeness' decision is wise. But how are you going to make sure your boundaries are maintained? How will you cope with your feelings when they arise? Did your 'humping' and 'masturbation' lead to orgasm? What is your mutual agreement when hands wander?
Also, are you informing parents?
Was I right about your religion?
I think your abdominal discomfort is probably due to an oncoming period, but I would not want to give a time span, but two or three days sounds probable. The body does not always behave in a 'text-book' way!!
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Hey thank you so so so much ..i got my periiods ....Abt our closeness ya iam pretty sure we can maintain boundries as we are from different work location..get to meet oly 3 to 4 times a year...so we are sure to be in limit..As such we have never been involved in any orgasm..jus hugging is all that we do...this is the first time i ever touched him though i have not allowed him to touch me closely till now...So iam sure after all this frustration which i have gone through in these 5 days, we are sure to avoid it in near future and maintain a clean relation till marriage..
And iam not a jain...der are a diverse religion here in india...So hope you wont be aware of all the religion..Abt parents,we have postponed the marriage talks to be after few months as we both have our own individual reponsibilities to finish b4 getting married...We will surely have a talk bit later..once again thanks a lot for all this...
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That's good. I'm glad you got you period. I think you have made a wise decision regarding your future.

I am aware there are many different religions in India (including Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism, Islam, Zoroastrianism, Judaism and Christianity). Knowing what someone's religion is sometimes helps to understand their situation better.

I'm glad I could help. Take Care
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