Me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. Both times I didn't enjoy it. This last time he couldn't find my vagina ! And he's 22! He jus goes super fast. Kinda rough. And then he wants me to give him head but doesn't want to return the favor -.- how can I make our sex better any suggestions?
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Hi it sounds to me like your bf is very in experienced, you don't say how old you are or if it was your first time or anything but what I would say is give him some guidance and tell him to slow down as there is no rush and that you have needs to :-)
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Thanks! I forgot to say I'm 18 I'm not a virgin -.- lol ! But this is very helpful :)
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I'd start by having him go down me first, with the expectation the favor might be returned in some way. I'd also suggest you might let him try to find his own way without a road map if he wants, he might find his way on his own. I do that because I don't want to guide with my own had giving the impression it doesn't know how to get there on it's own. Of course you can always take things in hand yourself and show the way. Don't be shy, after all you're already naked with each other! To slow him down, let him know how you like the variations of depth and speed, and that you actually like it when he sometimes just stops and pauses, and 'flexes' his love muscle so you can subtly feel him inside you. Good luck, and see me if you need anything else!
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