To whom it may conern:
My girlfirend and I have been dating for almost 3 yaers now and this are moving "REALLY SLOW". She allows me to perform oral sex on her and finger her, but it is very short lived because she says it feels "too good" and then while having dry sex her orgasms happen very quickly. Is this normal? After she has her orgasm thats it nothing else happens, and she is out of bed rather quickly. I dont think it is my performance because she constantly tells me how good I am and that i am too good! CAN SOMEBODY HELP ME?
My girlfirend and I have been dating for almost 3 yaers now and this are moving "REALLY SLOW". She allows me to perform oral sex on her and finger her, but it is very short lived because she says it feels "too good" and then while having dry sex her orgasms happen very quickly. Is this normal? After she has her orgasm thats it nothing else happens, and she is out of bed rather quickly. I dont think it is my performance because she constantly tells me how good I am and that i am too good! CAN SOMEBODY HELP ME?
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i can tell you why, guys dont know how to touch girls, when you guys have dry sex it probably rubs on her clit just right when you finger her and give her oral you probably do it too hard, tell her to be open and honest with you so you can make it better for her. fer real though, i have NO problem telling my man that he needs to do it softer and we've only been together for 9 months and im 6 months pregnant, so just straight up ask her.
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Thank you for your reply, i have talked to her about it though, even last night but she just continues to tell me my performance is awsome, "too good" as she says. I dont know what to think. I dont know if it is me being terrible at everything and she just wont tell me, or it's her. Could somebody maybe explain to me proper technique or even show me ,maybe i'm just not getting it? I really want ot make her happy
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haha you want someone to show you huh?? where do u live?? haha just playing but anyway i dont know what to tell you, she's obviously not honest with you so you should tell her to tell you what to do while you do it and if she makes you stop cuz it feels "too good" tell her your just not gonna do anything anymore until she can be honest with you, it'll make her feel bad trust me
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haha well i guess not show me, but u know what i mean, i just dont know if i am doing things right, and I dont really necessarily want to make her fell bad either
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well you seem to have a problem thats bigger than me, if i think of anything else ill tell you but i dont know what else to tell you except to tell her to be honest with you cuz you know shes not, GOOD LUCK
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Ah well thank you very much for your help though, i'll post again to let u know how it goes
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If youre still there.... LISTEN UP!!!
When she says it feels too good and wants to stop its because she is about to orgasm and is afraid to. Its NOT you. She is still not yet comfortable letting go and enjoying the experience. She IS NOT ready for sex yet so you should stop pressuring her. She comes quickly because she doesnt have her 'sea legs' yet. She isnt experienced enough in sex to control her reaction to such stimulation. Its new to her. I think youre rushing her. If you continue to seduce her this way, she will be eventually relax but will get used to only receiving oral and will be using your tongue everytime rather than pleasing you. Chill out and let her want sex when SHE wants to so that YOU can have intercourse with HER. Dont be her little 'lap dog" (if you know what I mean...) ;-)
When she says it feels too good and wants to stop its because she is about to orgasm and is afraid to. Its NOT you. She is still not yet comfortable letting go and enjoying the experience. She IS NOT ready for sex yet so you should stop pressuring her. She comes quickly because she doesnt have her 'sea legs' yet. She isnt experienced enough in sex to control her reaction to such stimulation. Its new to her. I think youre rushing her. If you continue to seduce her this way, she will be eventually relax but will get used to only receiving oral and will be using your tongue everytime rather than pleasing you. Chill out and let her want sex when SHE wants to so that YOU can have intercourse with HER. Dont be her little 'lap dog" (if you know what I mean...) ;-)
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Hey, thank you for your post, it sounds very logical, i really appriciate that and it makes sense. I know it does sound like i am pressuring her but i am not, it's just things w have disscussed, it's actually the exact opposite, i told her i will not pressure her to do ne thing because i believe the area of sex is a secondary thing and a product of true feelings. Haha i know that sounds kind of gay but thats the way i feel. I really appricate that post though, i just need some reassurence. I just didn't if ne thing was abnormal. My first relationship ;-)
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How old are you? I wish I could find a guy that cared that mych about my sexual pleasures! you sound like a very good boyfriend!!! Keep up the good work!! ;-) Best luck to you and your girliefriend!!
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I am 19, well i will be in less than 1 month, and thanks a lot, I appriciate it. I do try my best
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