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First off, I never share stories on the internet, but I'm compelled to share mine about this horrible topic. I suffered for about 3 years from hemorrhoids and they eventually go worse. About 6 months ago, I developed an anal fissure and a skin tag to go along with the issues. I decided to get surgery after a BM one day. After I finished, I laid in bed for hours in pain. I couldn't move or do anything. So I made an appointment and had the surgery. They removed the skin tag, did the lateral Sphincterotomy, and removed 3 hemorrhoids.
Surgery day, 1500hrs, everything went fine. Had trouble peeing afterwards, because I received the spinal shot. As I finally was able to pee, because I started getting feeling back in my lower half, the pain from the surgery came with it. Horrible horrible horrible pain and it made lying still uncomfortable. Got home, pain medicine wasn’t strong enough…I found out a few hours later. The next morning, at around 0400hrs, I had to go to the emergency room. The pain had me. I was defenseless. The random doc checked it out and said, yeah, you had surgery and it looked good. Meanwhile I’m lying on my side twisting and moaning in so much pain. He gave me some useless medicine. I couldn’t call my real doc until day 2, because he was off on day 1. Went back home to deal with the pain all day. The surgeon has given me Norco, but it did nothing for me! I was taking ibuprofen as well to help with the pain. The “most” comfortable positions for sleeping and pretty much anything was on my knees, bent over the bed. Or my favorite, laying on my back on the floor with my legs on the bed. Of course these positions only work if you have a low bed. These positions took away some of the throbbing I felt from the pain.
Day 1, the pain was very much still around. I don’t suggest this, but I started taking every piece of ibuprofen I could find in my house. I took enough to at least give me some kind of relief. It worked, but only a little. So I took a hot sitz bath…didn’t work. So I tried a full hot bath instead. The hot water gave me some relief, but not as much as I wanted. I dealt with it the whole day. It was a holiday, so most things were closed.
Day 2, the dreaded time that’s in the back of our minds when we have this surgery…BM day! Previously because of my hemorrhoids, it would take me 30 minutes to use the bathroom…without straining. The good news, this BM took about 4 minutes! I had never done it that quick before, so at least that made me happy for the future. One thing I took from the day of surgery was Colace and Aloe Vera Digestive Aid tablets. The BM was nice and smooth. But, it still felt like I was squeezing out a watermelon. The pain was incredible. As it was coming out, I could feel it rubbing up against the sore area where the hemorrhoids were inside and it felt like the cut from the surgery busted open. I grabbed a mirror to check, but everything looked in order. I was surprised! I had to take a bath and lay down afterwards. The pain lasted for about 3 hours. I called my doctor and asked for something stronger. He couldn’t get with me until after the pharmacy was closed, but he put in a prescription for Percocet.
Day 3, I went to get the Percocet first thing in the morning. Percocet worked like a charm! Most of the pain was gone or I’ll say I couldn’t feel it. I took a lot or Percocet, a little more than was prescribed, but I felt I had no choice. The pain was great. On a side note, since day 1, I’ve been pretty much laying on my back with my feet up on the bed. This position is a tricky one, because if you’ve been laying on your back for a while and you go to stand up, blood, feeling, pee, etc. rushes back to the lower half of your body. 20 minutes after taking the Percocet, I felt I needed to pee, so I stood up to go into the bathroom to pee. No pee came…this happens a lot, but it’s gotten better. After about 20 seconds of standing, BM number 2 approached. Again, I was terrified and scared to let it out. So I sat and it hurt…a lot…but it wasn’t as bad as the first one, so I figured it must be progress.
Day 4, pain was still lurking, but I kept up with the Percocet. Also, this entire time I had been eating high fiber foods, fruits, vegetables, and soups. To sum this day up…Percocet and food. Up to now, I’ve been passing gas every 20/30 minutes. It hurt at first, but then so much relief came from it.
Day 5, Pain, Percocet, sleep and food. I was starting to think, this is going to be a breeze now…then I got constipated. Guys, if there’s one thing you want to avoid through this procedure, its constipation. The 1st BM I had this day hurt more than the first one I had on day 2. And only a few pellets came out. I assumed the Percocet was doing a number on me, so I had to stop with the Percocet. Day 5 was not a good day. I could not pass gas. The pain in my bum was healing, but my stomach was hurting all day. BM 2 and 3 that day, hurt so much. I took one Percocet at night to help me sleep, but I told myself that was the last one.
Day 6, my bum is healing…there’s a lot less pain. It’s mostly just uncomfortable now. I got a donut cushion and so far it feels great. I just want to be mostly healed by day 13, because I’m going to be taking an 8 hour plane ride. I was not able to pass gas today. The stomach pain from being constipated was still there. Felt like I needed to have a BM, but nothing would come out.
Day 7, a week since my surgery and the surgery part is feeling a lot better. In the morning, I felt like I needed to have a BM. I went…one pellet and a huge log! It hurt a lot, but I felt like I wasn’t constipated anymore. I can’t describe the feeling. My stomach started feeling better almost immediately and then I began to pass gas again an hour later. Hopefully the constipation has passed. Sounds weird, but I’m looking forward to the next BM. I want to see if everything is working like it should now and I want to measure the pain from the surgery.
Side notes: This entire time I had a wonderful woman taking care of me. I’ve never had that before and I gotta say it was amazing. She made the food I needed, went to get the medication I needed, and rubbed my back and head when I was in pain. She also slept how and where I slept at night. Remember guys…everything is temporary…even the pain you’re feeling right now.
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Hello. I had an anal sphincterotomy about 3 years ago. I'm fully healed however, this small amount of mucus thing...enough to be annoying and bothersome, has never gone away for me. I hope yours has improved. I know now that this is a permanent thing... It's not awfully disgusting because it has no smell and isn't like poo but it can get uncomfortable and even irritating throughout the day. I assume... If you're still experiencing it.... That you just do what I do now and just give it a wipe every single time you're in the bathroom... Hahaha it's hard time talk about this stuff.. But it can cause such bad itching.... :::sigh::: this surgery saved me from the months of severe pain from that stupid fissure but dang I wish I could've fixed it another way. Sending love and positive thoughts your way. :)
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there is a surgery to correct an over-cut sphincter, it's called sphincteroplasty. i ran across it the term reading about fissures and sphincterotomy. it is a repair surgery, so google it to learn more. most seemed to have decent results. strange how you said your doctors said nothing can fix a sphincterotomy wear the surgeon maybe cut too deep.
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I am in terrible pain. I have been crying, and please don't tell me that men don't cry because we do, and we are not any less men because we do. So you all cry away if you need to, men or women. I have read many of your posts here and how some of you have been suffering for weeks. I'm sure I will experience some of that.
I do want to say though that we as humans tend to come to these forums and blogs when we need help and support. It's our nature to not come to these sites if we are doing just fine. I'm sure for many people, recovery takes only 1 or 2 weeks, and things go smoothly for them, so we don't hear from most of them here. So I keep telling myself that we are all here because we are suffering, and we are looking for hope.
JUST LISTEN!!! We will all be just fine a few weeks from now, and we will have learned from this experience. Where I come from we hug a lot, so here goes a big hug to all of you, whether you like hugging or not!!! :-)
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