Red cracked penis Itch that no one can cure

Ok for 5-6 years now I have had this happen every 4-6 months. Alot of you will relate to this cause I have read so many things like my problem and no one can get a decent answer. It started back in Highschool. I got a red rash with tiny water filled bumps on my feet..no biggie. Finally got this crazy cream to go on them and in the process it only came back 2 times in the next 2 years. used cream gone. That is when i first noticed the tip of my penis get really dry and have an almost brain like look to it. I shed the skin and poof didnt see it like that for more than a year. A year later had the same thing happen only this time it cracked and burned if i waxxed the carrot : ). This concerened me went it for an std check. Found out I had gonnorea. Was relieved thought that was the problem. Took a few pills poof no more gone a ree. But a few months later back to a stage (by stage i mean this usually lasted 5-7 days tops) of cracked red penis. Ok went in for another std check. This is around the time I stopped being a man w****, excuse the language but I was and grew up after all this nonsense. The check came back clean as can be. Doc kinda refused to figure out the problem said it would go away. Ok ill hurry this up a bit. One thing that sounds rediculous but is almost always true for me is when im in a relationship having almost daily sex. Had a 2 year deal and a 6 months deal. In that time I never had 1 red itchy spell. Dont know why but its almost as if the sex was a natural lotion. Docs can laugh at me but you dont know everything trust me you cant find whats wrong with me 8-| So here are the next few stages my penis always got red and cracked but never itched. Then one time I had the appearence of almost small warts. HPV warts dont go away after a week. Mine did so doc said your all good. switched doctors again. Now we come to today. Its worse than it has ever been. I have the red cracked skin. an itch like never before, small red pin like dots that itch, and in the spots the skin naturally flacked off just looks like its wet and sweating. I have also noticed lately that my face and scalp have been getting very dry, my tonsils got sore and covered by a white mucus that im sure isnt the normal food that gets stuck in the pits. The corner of my lips over the last 6 months have gotten dry and cracked for a few days. Now I havent been sexually active in a few months and the one girl I have slept with in the last 3 months was a nurse that actually had a 2 week old clean bill of health that she showed me as kinda a joke, and yes it was real :-P This is my final stand. I sit and read soo many forums when men describe the same things almost down to the T and yet no doctor has 1 intelligent thing to say besides its all in your head relax, if your std free your std free. You know what doc go light your penis on fire and cover it with salt and then ill tell you to relax as you itch and scramble in disscomfort. I am going in this week to as many doctors as I can find I dont care what it costs but I will get to the bottom of this. With all the research I have done I am assuming its yeast related...aka a yeast infection for men http://www.msu.edu/~eisthen/yeast/men.html . Possibly thrust(here is a link to its info) http://www.vhi.ie/hfiles/hf-380.jsp which would explain my fatigue and general lack of care for society due to being uncomfortable and tired 24/7. There is a list of things it could be guys and I hope for us all I can tell you what works for me if I succeed in my quest.

Here are a few links some from this site that have alot of the same symptoms:
https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/cracked-skin-and-redness-on-penis-head

https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/dry-itchy-genitals-w-dry-red-head-of-penis-and-foreskin

Here is another I just saw: https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/bumps-on-head-of-penis-and-cracks-in-the-skin-also-on-head&hpr=Bumps_on_head_of_penis_and_cracks_in_the_skin_also_on_head