Hey, so here’s my problem. Sex just isn’t working! About a year ago in the summer time I tried to have sex with the wrong guy. He literally shoved it in and I was almost in tears... I told him to take it out now it’s a year later and I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now... we’ve tried to have sex... the first time it just wasn’t working. Backshots, no. Missionary (him on top), didn’t work. Riding, didn’t work. I just gave up. We tried with lubricant also now I can say that lubricant helped a lot (or I say I dramatic change) the tip went in and it did hurt but he couldn’t go any deeper. Every time he would try I would get so tense (I think this is caused from my last experience where he just shoved it in) he told me to relax but I just couldn’t it hurt so bad and my vagina was so sore. He’s very big in size and long I’m very short. Oh, fingering is something that is also very discomfortable for me too. I honestly think there is something wrong with me... receiving head also is uncomfortable if the tongue hits the area where the penis goes in. Can someone please give me advise or help!