sex with my ex bf

Your first time is NOT gonna feel good. i almost cried my first time. and we didnt use a condom.  thinking back on it i wish we did. Using a condom would make it go in better but hes not gonna feel anything. For your first time your gonna wanna use one or your gonna have to be very wet, so going hardcore your first time is probably not gonna happen lol. not until after about 2 or 3 times. and for your first time, hes probably not even gonna be able to get it in all the way, im telling you it hurts!

i'm sorry girl-but u say ur 12? i'm that age too, and i've never even kissed a guy! Please...this isn't meant to sound really bad or anything, but i think u should wait until ur older. sex is just a physical act, that can hurt girls for their first time, as their hymen may rupture (if not done previously with a tampon/dildo etc.) what sex should really be is making love. that's when ur actually emotionally involved etc. etc. wait for a guy who makes u feel wonderful and that u want to give ur body to! that ur not self-conscious of, and that u can have a relatioship with. sex isn't meant to be "having fun" or "feeling good" like some people think-it's an important rite of passage. sorry, but am writing this fast-my computer is about to die. and, if for some chance, u r going to go through with this...use a condom. it's better to be safe then sorry! u know that there's a 3% chance every time u have sex that u wil get pregnant? just keep that in mind...r u ready for a baby or an abortion? hope u make a good desicion!!! good luck xoxo