small clitoris problem

For younger curious girls i may be able to help you find it and show your bf!!

i would suggest the he sucks it off as hard as he feels and then to fingerf**k u very fast so u can start to swell up and rub ur clit while he fingers the pusy. I personally love lots of skin and small clits. They much more fun to suck off and see it swell. i could give u a lesson if u want. we can chat.

u r a boast...

Try keeping your legs closed and tighten your butt!

zebedeux wrote:

Lou wrote:

this problem is really embarassing but i need some advice.
I have a really small clitoris and sometimes its hard to even find it! This bugs my boyfriend as he has never managed to give me an orgasm, i dont know what to do, i also have a lot of loose skin down there and i am only 18. I feel very self concious. HELP

Having a small clit don´t mean that you can´t orgasm. I think is your boyfriend that don´t know rightly how to do, or maybe he (and you!) don´t have enough patience.
I have been with a high number of girls, some really large clits and some really small ones and all of their comes like crazies.
The loose skin you are talking about is your labia minora, right? If you have biggies, this is another advantage as this is always high sensitive.
Don´t dispair! Try masturbate, without guilty! And enjoy... and think about change the boyfriend.

For the first time I have a new girlfriend with a small clit but I had no problem finding it...i think u should look at books on viaginas it should come natural to find it lol......

i so agree that it is embarrassing! it makes me really insecure. i dont understand how i got it. my mom said hers is normal.is there any way to make it bigger. i also have problems orgasming. and i know it has to do with how small our clits are.

Yupp just takes a lot of time and experimenting! That's really it these guys are hopeless lol!!!

I never thought about the size of my clit until I had a female partner. I didn't have any problems reaching orgasm, even I couldn't by oral or finger stimulation. Guys just accept that I prefer to leave it alone. She insisted on hunting for it. 8-| Not necessary. She made a big deal about how freaking tiny it is and I found out that I hate anything touching it. It's very sensitive and the movement I get from sexual intercourse or grinding is ample stimulation for an O or multiple.

 

Maybe it would have been normal to be embarrassed about how small and buried it is. But it just didn't occur to me to find it embarrassing. I didn't know it was supposed to measure up against anything. lol I found out what doesn't work and I know what does work. This really isn't something to stress over. Experiment, find out what works.

Hi, I agree change the boyfriend he doesn't have the patience a small clit girl needs. Small clits need very gentle and long stokes. I have a small clit too and have to have my nipples sucked during intercourse to climax. But I found that once there is high romantic environment and my partner is very turned on I come easily. Normally, I take long to cum but the atmosphere and my partners attitude makes the difference. Small clits are very sensitive. Don't waste time with someone not sensitive to your needs cupcakes.

Hi, I agree change the boyfriend he doesn't have the patience a small clit girl needs. Small clits need very gentle and long stokes. I have a small clit too and have to have my nipples sucked during intercourse to climax. But I found that once there is high romantic environment and my partner is very turned on I come easily. Normally, I take long to cum but the atmosphere and my partners attitude makes the difference. Small clits are very sensitive. Don't waste time with someone not sensitive to your needs cupcakes.

I came looking because my fantasy came true this morning, I got to have a special moment with a friend I love and care about but I've lusted for her for 7 years. I always imagined she would have a clit ring and I was surprised when she spooned me and after a few moments pulled my hand around to her stomach then forced my hand down, I didn't feel her clit as she pushed me past to partially insert my finger. Years ago she mentioned she hated guys going down and it turned her off because it did nothing for her but never explained past that. SO the way she moved told me she is more excited from insertion than external stimulation. BUT I've always wanted to eat her up, she is amazing... so I slowly took the trip down instead of going straight for intercourse, and I could barley find her clit with my tongue, but i don't just fiddle around down there, I will suck always have, and that was the prize as I sucked I started to feel her clit and the metallic taste an I knew I was doing something she had not experienced before... I stayed until she orgasumed and slammed her legs into my head and I tried to keep going but yeah. after that she couldn't move and both of our phones where going off so that actually stopped the moment... that hardest part was we spent the last 7 hours at a convention acting like nothing happened and me wanting to explode every time I looked at her.

 

Lady's with or with out small clits tell him to commit! Just like he likes soft lips intimately down there tell him to get to work and put forth the effort to stimulate/SUCK your clit until it is "erect" and then he can play with his tongue while sucking your clit!

 

sorry for the sex story but it's why I came to see if small clits where common (I'd never experienced it!) But I gave her my 110% effort and it paid off, I may wish I had my turn but I feel like I experienced the most pleasure knowing I did something new for her and knowing she came

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dont wory sis. youre not the only one having that problem. my girlfriend too. and hardly find her clitoris due to its size is too small. oral sex is the best.. thats the solution to your problem. its me benjie panganiban from the philippines.

I am a male. I've been with a fair amount of women in the last 30 years. I assure you that your small clit is ok. My current lady has th tiniest clit I've ever seen. But with my tongue I can get her to orgasm multiple times. With my penis I also get her to multiple orgasms. Remember the brain is your most important sexual organ Please feel free to email me with questions or comments. Thank you Mark

dont be embarrased because ur clit is small, maybe ur boyfriend needs to love u more down there at the clit area and rub u more for a good orgasm.