Hi! My boyfriend and I had sex about three or four days ago, and since then my clitoris has been pretty sore, i’m just curious if this could be from him rubbing it too hard, or if it could be something more serious?
It could have been caused by rubbing if your clit was not wet enough, did you notice it sore straight after and does it look redder than normal?
No, no, it wasn’t sore until the next morning, and it doesn’t appear to be swollen or red
It could be just that it wasn't wet enough and the friction from rubbing made it sore, does it feel any better now?
not noticing much pain today, it’s only sore if i touch it haha, and even then it’s not as bad
I think you will find it was just dry friction that caused it and over the next couple days it will go back to normal. Next time tell your bf to keep his finger suitably wet or use some kind of water based lubricant like durex pleasure gels that come in different styles and flavours.