I need both male and female advice on this. Reason I need both is because 1. I'm a guy. Guys will understand where I'm coming from. Not that girls won't, but, well....it's a guy thing. And 2. Because this has to do with a natural female function and they will know that better than any guy.
Alright. So I understand the whole period once a month thing that lasts approximately a week. And I know that if you come inside a girl wihtin a week of the period starting, it's a higher chance of pregnancy. I also know that pregnancy stops the monthly cycle.
My partner and I had sex several times between the 24th and 30th of August. We haven't used a condom at all. But here's how we've been doing it. I know I can get her off at least once before I'm even close. After I do that, I pull out and have her give me a hand job. I know myself well enough to know that I don't even pre-come until I'm about to discharge. I will have urinated before having sex, and I usually wash myself in the shower real quick after doing that.
Her last period was the first week of August (not starting on the first since that was a saturday). Well here it is the 8th and she hasn't started up again yet. I am worried. I haven't discharged at all inside her. So I'm thinking that there's really no way I could have possibly gotten her pregnant. So is this her body just acting funny? Or can periods vary on when they start? That and do they sometimes fluctuate length of time in between periods?
My last girlfriend usually had hers at the end of each month, but as time passed by it slowly started drifting towards the middle of each month. But my current partner and I have only been having sex since july.
This is all very frustrating. And I'm suffering from incredible amounts of anxiety because of it. I'm 22 years old, not quite finished with school yet. This girl and I aren't even "officially" dating. And there is no way I'm financially ready or mentally ready for a child. To put it simply....
HELP!
Alright. So I understand the whole period once a month thing that lasts approximately a week. And I know that if you come inside a girl wihtin a week of the period starting, it's a higher chance of pregnancy. I also know that pregnancy stops the monthly cycle.
My partner and I had sex several times between the 24th and 30th of August. We haven't used a condom at all. But here's how we've been doing it. I know I can get her off at least once before I'm even close. After I do that, I pull out and have her give me a hand job. I know myself well enough to know that I don't even pre-come until I'm about to discharge. I will have urinated before having sex, and I usually wash myself in the shower real quick after doing that.
Her last period was the first week of August (not starting on the first since that was a saturday). Well here it is the 8th and she hasn't started up again yet. I am worried. I haven't discharged at all inside her. So I'm thinking that there's really no way I could have possibly gotten her pregnant. So is this her body just acting funny? Or can periods vary on when they start? That and do they sometimes fluctuate length of time in between periods?
My last girlfriend usually had hers at the end of each month, but as time passed by it slowly started drifting towards the middle of each month. But my current partner and I have only been having sex since july.
This is all very frustrating. And I'm suffering from incredible amounts of anxiety because of it. I'm 22 years old, not quite finished with school yet. This girl and I aren't even "officially" dating. And there is no way I'm financially ready or mentally ready for a child. To put it simply....
HELP!
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Hi honey! I'm a woman but experienced in ALL areas of sexual health and pregnancy so I can answer for both sides OK? I will do it in point form way and answer each query OK?
1. Yes she could still be pregnant from precum - which happens as soon as you become erect - the chances of her being pregant are SLIM due to your impecabble regime!
2. Even though a woman is more fertile the week to 10 days after a period is true, BUT she can get pregnant at ANY time - even during her period!
3. A womans period can be wonky from time to time - even if she has been dead on for years!
4. A womans period can actually be late OR even stop - due to stress, diet, illness, infection! The amount of women who are stressed about being pregnant, can actually make themselves FEEL pregnant!
5. Pregnancy doesn't always stop the monthly cycle, as some women can actually get a period well into their 1st trimester even into their 2nd trimester!
6. Also have either of you been tested for STD's/STI's - because some of these mimic pregnancy symtpoms!
7. What you used is called Natural Family Planning! And you should also know that it has a 60 - 70% Success rate! So since you have such anxiety about her being pregnant, do NOT continue with this in the future OK? Or I can guarantee you it's just a matter of time that you WILL become a father GUARANTEED! So keep that in the back of your mind ok?
8. If this girl is stressing out as you are, just tell her to relax and her period should come on shortly! Consider this a warning and an eye opener OK?
If you have any other questions just ask away! I'm here in my female AND male form!!! ;-) XD
1. Yes she could still be pregnant from precum - which happens as soon as you become erect - the chances of her being pregant are SLIM due to your impecabble regime!
2. Even though a woman is more fertile the week to 10 days after a period is true, BUT she can get pregnant at ANY time - even during her period!
3. A womans period can be wonky from time to time - even if she has been dead on for years!
4. A womans period can actually be late OR even stop - due to stress, diet, illness, infection! The amount of women who are stressed about being pregnant, can actually make themselves FEEL pregnant!
5. Pregnancy doesn't always stop the monthly cycle, as some women can actually get a period well into their 1st trimester even into their 2nd trimester!
6. Also have either of you been tested for STD's/STI's - because some of these mimic pregnancy symtpoms!
7. What you used is called Natural Family Planning! And you should also know that it has a 60 - 70% Success rate! So since you have such anxiety about her being pregnant, do NOT continue with this in the future OK? Or I can guarantee you it's just a matter of time that you WILL become a father GUARANTEED! So keep that in the back of your mind ok?
8. If this girl is stressing out as you are, just tell her to relax and her period should come on shortly! Consider this a warning and an eye opener OK?
If you have any other questions just ask away! I'm here in my female AND male form!!! ;-) XD
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Neither one of us have STDs. I know that for a fact.
But good news! It started last night. So now I'm not worried. She wasn't stressing about it at all actually. She knew it was coming. What's odd is that her ex boyfriend used to know when it would start and would tell her when. In other words, he knew the cycle schedule better than she did! And now that she's not with him and hasn't been for several months, she says it's been weird because he would usually tell her when it would start and she never had to worry about it.
I don't know how that is, that a guy can do that. I'm lost on that case. But at least I know she isn't pregnant.
But good news! It started last night. So now I'm not worried. She wasn't stressing about it at all actually. She knew it was coming. What's odd is that her ex boyfriend used to know when it would start and would tell her when. In other words, he knew the cycle schedule better than she did! And now that she's not with him and hasn't been for several months, she says it's been weird because he would usually tell her when it would start and she never had to worry about it.
I don't know how that is, that a guy can do that. I'm lost on that case. But at least I know she isn't pregnant.
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Glad to hear it honey! If she and her ex had sex often, then he could actually tell from her vagina feeling different! Also if he was TOTALLY stressed about being a dad, he would have had that baby written down in his daytimer!!!! ;-) XD XD Just remember how you have felt for the last couple of days OK? And know that if you don't wear a condom, it's just a matter of time honey! So good luck and health to you!
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As a guy, let me tell you--start using condoms. I dunno if you want to be a dad but if you don't want to be a girl's husband, wrap it up before you have sex, every time. Even if a woman says she's on birth control, she may not be. Or she may have an STD. I'm glad your girlfriend doesn't have that but unless you're ready to have a kid at 22, wear a condom!
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I'm having the same problem my partner and I had sex 2 weeks ago and my period was supposed to start today but I feel pregnant. I don't want to be I grew up in a christian home and I'm a christian too, things just happened and now I'm stressing and no period. I cant take a test bc I have no where to biy one or take it. I'm 18 and about ready to graduate shortly and ibarely even make money at my current job. I need so much help idk wat to do and I cant stop stressing
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It depends on the length of your cycle. If you have a 28 - 30 day cycle, you would normally ovulate between days 10 to 16 of your cycle. This means that sex around day 14 (2 weeks ago) would have been right in your fertile window. So there is a good chance that you could very well be pregnant.
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okay so i have not had sex in 7 months and my period is late my husband got deported so im freaki ng out what should i do i have been cramping but nothing to show for it
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