Recently, my boyfriend and i had sex. We've been dating for a while now, but the past two times we had sex, we didn't use a condom. The first time, my inner lip had got swollen, but it went down quickly. Within about 2 days. This time, it's been swollen for about 5 days. It's really irritating when i pee, when i come out of the shower, walking, sitting, and closing my legs. It doesn't really hurt, just irritating. Is there any way to make it go down??