Hi. Because of my shy and retiring nature I had problems since always. In my childhood I attempted to be as lass as I could in contact with other people, even my mother told me that I was very shy and that I talked rarely.
Now, when I am 20 years old that attempting to be “invisible” growth into a disease.
I don’t have a girlfriend, nor did I have. As soon as some girlfriend passes me a hand for introduction, I start to shiver and my tongue twist.
What a shame. About all my male friends have girlfriends and I fell as am I somehow handicapped.
Did anybody of you get these kinds of problems and what could be the possible solution?
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I have reading your post and thinking about your problem.
I want you ton understand one thing, you are not alone with this problem.
This has become a major problem of young males all around the globe.
I don’t know what could cause this.
Maybe young kids are spending too much time at computer and none talking with other kids eye to eye or in some playground. You said that you are 20 now and maybe now it’s too late to play with kids but I have one suggestion.
Why don’t you join some after school section like orchestra, art section or similar activities that will connect you with other people? Participate in some school research.
Start with this and, step by step, everything will work out just fine.
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im 16 and a girl but i have the same problem...im not sure if ur saying ur just shy around girls but im shy around everyone :-( my parents always tell me im to quiet and need to make more friends but its really hard for me....i barely have any good friends, just afew i talk to during school. its just really hard for me to start conversations with people. i feel like its ruining my life cuz i always feel very lonely and i get really depressed over it =[. the only thing that really helps me talk to people is chatting to people over the internet....i dont feel shy at all then and i just wish i was able to talk the same way in real life as i do on the internet ;\. ur not alone and i know it rly sucks i hate it =[ wish sum1 culd help us, i feel like no1 understands why i dont talk they all just say u shuld talk more but i really feel like i cant =[
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