My  12 year old grand daughter has a thyroid condition.   She texts boys the whole time when we go out to eat. I ask her not to even bring the cell phone in,but she does it anyway,.   Her mother can stop her from bringing it, but her mother spends bery little time with her.  Yesterday  the phone needed charging while we were eating.   She demanded that we leave immediatetely.   I told her that I was waiting  for my food to be put on the buffet.    She cursed me and demanded that we leave.   Every other minute she would say I am ready to go.   Can we leave now. 

I got her long hair trimed and washed at Walmart because she refuses to wash  it.  Hermother waited until she was drinking to tell me how pissed she was over the hair cut.   The kid had white ball that looked like eggs in her head.  Her hair was coming out by the hand fulls.  The mother also says it is okay for the girl to talk to strange men on the phone.   I asked her to at least limit the girl's minutes, but she will not do that.   I tried to talk to welfare, but they wind up saying that the mother is doing fine.   I need to stay away from the girl.    The girl has been with me from birth twenty four hours a day until her mother gets high and then she will come for her and drag her around with her.   I am not allowed to say anything.