I'm used to fingering with 1 finger and I want to gradually be able to use two, I've tried to do two, but I just couldn't get over the fact that it would hurt because i would be breaking my hymen or stretching it, I forgot lol but I need help getting to use two fingers, I know y'all are probably like "you don't need two if you already get pleasure with one" but just answer the question
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Firstly, it's important to understand that the hymen can be stretched or torn in a variety of ways that don't involve sexual activity. In fact, many people have hymens that are already stretched or partially torn, due to activities like exercise, using tampons, or even just normal physical development.
That being said, if you're concerned about damaging your hymen while self-pleasuring, there are a few things you can try. One approach is to gradually work up to using two fingers over time, starting with one finger and gradually adding more pressure or movement as you become more comfortable. You can also try using a water-based lubricant to make things more comfortable and reduce the risk of tearing.
Additionally, it's worth noting that the hymen itself isn't actually a "barrier" that needs to be broken or penetrated. Rather, it's a thin membrane that surrounds the vaginal opening and can be stretched or moved out of the way during sexual activity. So even if your hymen does tear or stretch during self-pleasure, it's not necessarily a cause for concern or a sign of "losing virginity."
Ultimately, the most important thing is to listen to your body and do what feels comfortable and pleasurable for you. If you experience pain or discomfort while exploring with two fingers, it's important to slow down, take a break, or even switch to a different approach altogether. And if you're ever unsure about what's normal or healthy when it comes to sexual exploration, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted healthcare provider or sexual health educator for guidance.
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