i'm 16 and very insecure about my body. i feel like it's really abnormal and no one else shares my insecurities. i feel like my legs are too long for how short my torso is, my butt is too flat (especially in today's culture of rap and whatnot when a big butt is the most celebrated thing ever), but my two biggest issues are that i feel like my boobs are WAY out of proportion HUGE for my body and i have big labia that hang down. i am seriously considering labiaplasty and breast reduction even though those would both possibly leave horrible scars and i'm usually completely against plastic surgery of any form.
i feel like my body type is extremely unattractive to the opposite sex. is it?
and does anyone else have any of these same insecurities?
i feel like i'm the only one.
i feel like my body type is extremely unattractive to the opposite sex. is it?
and does anyone else have any of these same insecurities?
i feel like i'm the only one.
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Wow, yup had EVERY ONE OF THOSE insecurities. I have a short torso that makes me feel fat though my legs are long and strong. My boobs are double Ds and have been for a few years now. My butt is so small that I'm really picky about what jeans I wear. And I used to wonder why my lips look large down there.
You know what? Everyone is designed differently. Why on earth would you want to look like everyone else?
Don't get surgery and change the beautiful gifts that were given to you. Some day, you will find a man that finds every one of your body parts to be absolutely beautiful!
Try reading self-help books like Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul where girls your age write in about all kinds of stuff like self-image. You can find them anywhere such as your library, garage sales and stores like Barnes and Noble.
It may take awhile to appreciate what's yours and realize you're amazing as who you are but don't do anything impulsive like surgically changing you! You're still young and your body is still changing and growing. Allow yourself time to grow into it.
P.S. Since when are big boobs unattractive to the opposite sex?! XD
You know what? Everyone is designed differently. Why on earth would you want to look like everyone else?
Don't get surgery and change the beautiful gifts that were given to you. Some day, you will find a man that finds every one of your body parts to be absolutely beautiful!
Try reading self-help books like Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul where girls your age write in about all kinds of stuff like self-image. You can find them anywhere such as your library, garage sales and stores like Barnes and Noble.
It may take awhile to appreciate what's yours and realize you're amazing as who you are but don't do anything impulsive like surgically changing you! You're still young and your body is still changing and growing. Allow yourself time to grow into it.
P.S. Since when are big boobs unattractive to the opposite sex?! XD
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I agree with the above post... don't change who you are especially by surgery... You will see that the important people in your life will love you for how you look now. And just because you think these little problems with your body are ugly doesn't mean everyone else does!! Have pride in who you are on the inside and outside!!
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There's certainly a segment of guys that value boobs above all (for better or worse) so no matter what you will always be attractive to them. If you are really shy and don't necessarily care for the big, strong type of guys (that are often jerks) try talking to a shy, geeky type. They're usually friendly enough and would never approach you because they would be intimidated by your boobs (honest to God--I know because I was one of those geeks back in the day). We would think something like this to ourselves, "I'd ask her out but there's no way she'd go out with a guy like me (because she could probably prefer some big, hunky type of guy)." It takes more confidence on a guy's part to ask out a girl with larger boobs.
As for the labia, I don't think most guys care about that at all (heck, it's not like we see those often and at your age probably haven't seen any up close so don't have anything to compare it to).
As for the labia, I don't think most guys care about that at all (heck, it's not like we see those often and at your age probably haven't seen any up close so don't have anything to compare it to).
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