I had sex around last month this time. He was a new partner and it wasn't expected to happen. So he went down on me for some time... After a while it started to hurt a bit. I asked him to ease up. And we had rough sex. However afterwards I went to the bathroom and the right side of my labia minora was swollen and it hurt to touch to wear underwear. I iced it and all. But now a month later that right side is still bigger than the other the swelling is down but the right side never seemed to go down. Will it go down? Do I need to go see someone?