Before I start I'm asking to please not judge me, i know this is the internet some if you will try to bully me anyways due to your own insecurities and just pure need to violate someone else feelings but this is a delicate and personal experience that I hope will end up helping others in the future, to start off i am 19 years old my boyfriend is 20 and. We are both very early in our college careers, both of our mothers are single and i have four siblings who are also all in college, his mother has health issues as does he and we just were not financially or emotionally ready to have children... In no way am i judging young parents in any way, you just have to know what's best for you and this was the best decision i made for myself. It was not made lightly there was alot of crying and yelling but at the end of the day we all needed to out of emotions to the side. . I got pregnant around the end of my freshman year of college, in fact my boyfriend and i found out together i was 3+ weeks and so i decided to go to the doctor to see how far along i actually was it wasn't until i arrived at the abortion clinic that i actually saw how far along i was which was 7 weeks. Because i was out of state for college we took a bus to the nearest state where i had family, and went to the planned parenthood the next day, it took luke two hours just for them to collect my pee and blood from there she got my ultrasound when I saw the baby I did cry ALOT, pretty much doubled over. They had me talk to the therapist who was basically money hungry and didnt care about my feelings, but anyways, I signed and paid and they took me back for the surgical abortion I went with the mild sedation which kind of makes you feel drunk. The whip procedure was about 10 minutes. But guess what the doctor didn't get the baby out at all he only got some if the tissue! Apparently my uterus was in a "wave" looking position and he couldn't get the instruments in the right place and it was to dangerous to do any more surgery. So that night they gave me the medical abortion pills... I took the first pill at the clinic then took the other pills 24. Hours later almost immediately I felt a sharp pain in my uterus and then after that cramps(now this is my first pregnancy experience so all the pains were new and I had nothing to compare them with but I usually have horrible periods anyways medium to heavy bleeding and then medium ti light cramping) I was prepared for the worst pain of my life which is what ultimately got me through it. My best advice is to use a heating pad have some cold water on hand and the fan because you will get hot. Wear some comfortable clothing. The good news is, that most of the posts you've read aren't very normal alot of them are rare you will probably not have as much pain as they experienced. I wasn't doubled over on the floor dying chivering or anythin I was in pain but it was tolerable prepare your self for the worst but just know it will be over soon. If I can go through two abortions all in the same week! You can do this YOU CAN DO THIS. good luck.