he keeps after me about my weight. I'm not over. I'm 5'8 145 pounds. a size 6/8 very normal. he wants me to be thiner. I have a horrible past with eating disorders and he's aware of. he says that my weight bounces up and down between 5 to 10 bounds (which is true, depends on if it that time of month and I started birth control). I think I should leave him. should I. this is our only problem. everything else is wonderful.
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it seems like he doesn't care about your feelings, only his... If he really truely loves you then your weight wouldn't be an issue at all... Just imagine how things would be if you got pregnant and even after that..
beauty doesn't last forever, so just going off that, neither would your relationship...
Besides, making someone feel bad about themselves is not a good motivator for them to improve themselves...
If I were him, I would compliment everything I love about you. And when I notice that you're dropping weight, I would let you know that I noticed and tell you how beautiful you're and what a good job you're doing. (if weight really was that big of an issue as far as my attraction to you)...
I've been in love before. and when I first met the woman I was involved with, of course looks played a big part... but after a while when you really love someone, you barely see what's on the outside, and all you see is her, and she becomes even more beautiful to you because of that... Anyways, in my opinion, 5'8 and 145 pounds is nowhere near overweight.. tyra banks on the magazine cover i've seen says she weighs 161lbs and she looks great plus she's around your height.
beauty doesn't last forever, so just going off that, neither would your relationship...
Besides, making someone feel bad about themselves is not a good motivator for them to improve themselves...
If I were him, I would compliment everything I love about you. And when I notice that you're dropping weight, I would let you know that I noticed and tell you how beautiful you're and what a good job you're doing. (if weight really was that big of an issue as far as my attraction to you)...
I've been in love before. and when I first met the woman I was involved with, of course looks played a big part... but after a while when you really love someone, you barely see what's on the outside, and all you see is her, and she becomes even more beautiful to you because of that... Anyways, in my opinion, 5'8 and 145 pounds is nowhere near overweight.. tyra banks on the magazine cover i've seen says she weighs 161lbs and she looks great plus she's around your height.
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