Hello... I'm still a young girl just for the record .. I have been reading every thread that could be similar to my problem, called hotlines, asked friends that had been pregnant, and my best friend has been helping me calm down by asking his friends and coworkers. It's been almost 2 months since it happened, and I think that I might just be overreacting and such. But here's the situation: (please... take your time and help me calm down or something..)
On June 26th I didn't have intercourse with my partner, but we were fooling around for the first time. So after a while he came on top of my chest area, nowhere near the vaginal area. But of course me being curious, touched the cum and then I wiped it off with a t-shirt. After that I had went to the restroom, no I didn't wash my hands.. I know that must've been the dumbest mistake to make. 15 minutes later or less than half an hour later, I started to finger myself. Later on that day, my period had came in. I can safely say that it ended like a normal period. Note, I missed the period for June. I say this because Usually my periods come in probably the 2nd week of the month or so but I believe that mine is irregular since I'm still young. Now... 18 days after that period, I happened to come across another period; this means it was on July 14th, I'm not sure if it was a period but I bled like a regular period as well this time. Oh and I'm usually a heavy bleeder so.. yeah. Although when I come to think about it, it wasn't really that heavy just moderate I would say. I have been stressing out over this situation so much.. I started having a fever/flu/or a really heavy cold on July 22nd due to the hot weather. It had lasted for about 2 weeks. My next period had came, it started on August 6th and ended on August 12th. This time, the heavy bleeding only occurred for 2 days and gradually became lighter and lighter. Of course after I read a bunch of threads I had learned about Implantation Bleeding, which is the thing that scared me on July's period. I'm sort of afraid to buy a HPT, but I will buy one this month just so I could calm myself down. Okay.. and I'm sure that I haven't had much symptoms, so far the ones that I read that were common.
Though, here is what I had been feeling so far:
- Around June 28th, I had been feeling really gassy, up until now. I've been burping a lot not loud/disturbing burps just little ones. That's either everytime I swallow or out of nowhere. ( The things that I ate that day were a slice of Pizza, and half a bottle of Strawberry Fanta ><, that's the only thing to be honest..)
- Now I've been feeling (I guess) sore or just not right around my stomach area.
And just for the record, I've been staying up til 4-5 AM. ( I think it might be because I stayed up on purpose on a certain day and now my sleeping schedule is haywired. I've usually had this problem so I think that it 's normal.)
I've been wanting to go to the doctor's to see what's going on with me but I'm scared if I might be pregnant... I've been told by everyone, the sperm probably died because it hasn't been in a warm or damp environment and it was exposed to air. And that in my situation it would be highly unlikely for me to become pregnant. Also, I'm not on any birth control nor had any protection.. >< Please someone out there ... I'm sorry for such a long post but I wanted to make sure I said everything... Please help me calm down ><... I feel really... stupid for ever doing this. I just wish that I could be in a different situation other than this...
-Cameron
On June 26th I didn't have intercourse with my partner, but we were fooling around for the first time. So after a while he came on top of my chest area, nowhere near the vaginal area. But of course me being curious, touched the cum and then I wiped it off with a t-shirt. After that I had went to the restroom, no I didn't wash my hands.. I know that must've been the dumbest mistake to make. 15 minutes later or less than half an hour later, I started to finger myself. Later on that day, my period had came in. I can safely say that it ended like a normal period. Note, I missed the period for June. I say this because Usually my periods come in probably the 2nd week of the month or so but I believe that mine is irregular since I'm still young. Now... 18 days after that period, I happened to come across another period; this means it was on July 14th, I'm not sure if it was a period but I bled like a regular period as well this time. Oh and I'm usually a heavy bleeder so.. yeah. Although when I come to think about it, it wasn't really that heavy just moderate I would say. I have been stressing out over this situation so much.. I started having a fever/flu/or a really heavy cold on July 22nd due to the hot weather. It had lasted for about 2 weeks. My next period had came, it started on August 6th and ended on August 12th. This time, the heavy bleeding only occurred for 2 days and gradually became lighter and lighter. Of course after I read a bunch of threads I had learned about Implantation Bleeding, which is the thing that scared me on July's period. I'm sort of afraid to buy a HPT, but I will buy one this month just so I could calm myself down. Okay.. and I'm sure that I haven't had much symptoms, so far the ones that I read that were common.
Though, here is what I had been feeling so far:
- Around June 28th, I had been feeling really gassy, up until now. I've been burping a lot not loud/disturbing burps just little ones. That's either everytime I swallow or out of nowhere. ( The things that I ate that day were a slice of Pizza, and half a bottle of Strawberry Fanta ><, that's the only thing to be honest..)
- Now I've been feeling (I guess) sore or just not right around my stomach area.
And just for the record, I've been staying up til 4-5 AM. ( I think it might be because I stayed up on purpose on a certain day and now my sleeping schedule is haywired. I've usually had this problem so I think that it 's normal.)
I've been wanting to go to the doctor's to see what's going on with me but I'm scared if I might be pregnant... I've been told by everyone, the sperm probably died because it hasn't been in a warm or damp environment and it was exposed to air. And that in my situation it would be highly unlikely for me to become pregnant. Also, I'm not on any birth control nor had any protection.. >< Please someone out there ... I'm sorry for such a long post but I wanted to make sure I said everything... Please help me calm down ><... I feel really... stupid for ever doing this. I just wish that I could be in a different situation other than this...
-Cameron
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There should be an edit button here but... I just wanted to say that I'm only 16.. I really regret doing this... I just hope that someone could help me out ><
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Once semen touches the air it starts to liquidate (meaning the sperm in it dies and it becomes sterile). its not an instance process but 15 minutes is more than ample time for the greatest of pornstars semen to liquidate i should think. and it u wiped it off ur hand. Id say u have virtually no chance of being pregnant. but consider this. Ever heard of worrying urself sick? well it is possible. If you are really freaking out and stressed you trick yourself into thinking you have symptoms that you really dont. Also stress can cause delayed periods and such. I really would say you shouldnt worry.
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Thank you very much for your help >< I've been told that a lot about the whole stress thing.. I'll keep trying to set it aside ^^, I hope more people can reply later on >.<
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Can I at least have these three questions answered:
- Is burping a lot, just little burps keep in mind, a symptom of pregnancy? Or could it be something to do with me stressing out so much and thinking about it a lot?
- Let's say if I was pregnant, where would I be feeling any pain at? If any?
- and.. Could someone like tell me how morning sickness is? My best friend said that it was vomiting automatically. Sorry to be straightforward/blunt, but last night my stomach was just not feeling well. I'm thinking because of the burping, it's a gas problem which I might go check it out. After a while of burping, I felt like throwing up, so I tried to and... when I started to I um.. pretty much threw up in like clumps... >< I really wish anyone could help me please...
- Is burping a lot, just little burps keep in mind, a symptom of pregnancy? Or could it be something to do with me stressing out so much and thinking about it a lot?
- Let's say if I was pregnant, where would I be feeling any pain at? If any?
- and.. Could someone like tell me how morning sickness is? My best friend said that it was vomiting automatically. Sorry to be straightforward/blunt, but last night my stomach was just not feeling well. I'm thinking because of the burping, it's a gas problem which I might go check it out. After a while of burping, I felt like throwing up, so I tried to and... when I started to I um.. pretty much threw up in like clumps... >< I really wish anyone could help me please...
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OK burping isnt really a symptom. Heartburn is. So if u feel a rising and burning in ur chest after u eat then thats a symptom but anyone can have that problem really. IF you felt any pain i have read that it feels like cramps but in your abdominal area. And morning sickness is where you wake up feeling like sh*t and just kinda puke. goes away after the morning
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I see.. I'm having my brother get me some Gas Relief medicine to see if it calms my stomach down ><. I've also asked a friend earlier about what I've been feeling and he says that there might be something wrong with my upper stomach. My stomach area feels like it's sore right now...
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I really doubt you are pregnant. however, about the morning sickness...it doesnt just occur in the morning and it can be nausia with or without vomitting. When my sister was pregnant she had heartburn/ indigestion all the time during the first trimester. youngin38, you were on the right track as well but once again you two, morning sickness does not just occur in the morning its an all day thing sometimes
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Alright, after a while of trying to push this away from my mind, it didn't. I'm getting scared from the post absaenger gave ><, could I be having heartburn/indigestion as a symptom?... :-( I'm understanding the morning sickness part, so far nothing's happened just the same usual thing. I'm still burping as of this day and yeah... It's hard to calm down/not think about it..
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Hi Cameron,
I think that you should take a pregnancy test. There are pregnancy care centers who will do a test for you at no cost, and your privacy is guaranteed. Taking a test is the best way to put your mind at ease.
I am a bit older than you, im sure, and I have to tell you.... your post and the things that you put on there, brought back memories for me when I was younger and went through ALOT of the same things as you are, including the period irregularities. ONLY... I was not quite as wise as you are, and I continued having sex and tearing myself mentally apart.
The reason I say I remember, is because I remember the EXACT feelings of what you stated and I remembered getting myself "psyched" out. Sound like something you are feeling?
Also when you dont get regular sleep, when you have a "disturbance" in you schedule, when you have "new" things happening in your life, school. jobs, worries about finances, etc..., these things can also cause a period disturbance.
I wish you many blessings, please let me know how you are doing, ok? I know you will make the right decisions. Dont freak yourself out though, allright? Think clearly and get a test.
Hizgrace
I think that you should take a pregnancy test. There are pregnancy care centers who will do a test for you at no cost, and your privacy is guaranteed. Taking a test is the best way to put your mind at ease.
I am a bit older than you, im sure, and I have to tell you.... your post and the things that you put on there, brought back memories for me when I was younger and went through ALOT of the same things as you are, including the period irregularities. ONLY... I was not quite as wise as you are, and I continued having sex and tearing myself mentally apart.
The reason I say I remember, is because I remember the EXACT feelings of what you stated and I remembered getting myself "psyched" out. Sound like something you are feeling?
Also when you dont get regular sleep, when you have a "disturbance" in you schedule, when you have "new" things happening in your life, school. jobs, worries about finances, etc..., these things can also cause a period disturbance.
I wish you many blessings, please let me know how you are doing, ok? I know you will make the right decisions. Dont freak yourself out though, allright? Think clearly and get a test.
Hizgrace
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Thank you so much HizGrace, I hope you or someone else could help me out through this situation. And I'm still continuing to burp for no reason and I'm not sure if I should go to the doctor's to get this checked out; better yet, I'm afraid to go to the doctor's and get checked... The weather here where I live has been getting quite hot, around high 80s and so far I've gotten either 3 to 4 periods... I say either because I'm not sure about the period that I had in the month of July. It wasn't heavy, I know because you know.. >_> stressing out and checking every time whenever I went to the restroom to see if I was on it or not. I believe around that time, I came to the thought of it being implantation bleeding... since it wasn't heavy. The periods that I've been having recently have either carried on for at least 4 days, 4th day being the lightest.
Now, today.. I'm freaking out because I'm not sure if it's the weather being hot that would cause me to have a light period. I'm pretty sure that my period 'actually' came late yesterday/last night, and it would make today day 2 of my period maybe? >_< Is it true that if you're pregnant, your period stops coming or is it possible for it to keep coming in like a "normal" period?
Now, today.. I'm freaking out because I'm not sure if it's the weather being hot that would cause me to have a light period. I'm pretty sure that my period 'actually' came late yesterday/last night, and it would make today day 2 of my period maybe? >_< Is it true that if you're pregnant, your period stops coming or is it possible for it to keep coming in like a "normal" period?
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Hi guest,
Boy, let me tell, memories came back when you mentioned checking to see of it was there. Alot of women are different, and they sometimes have a period or 2 during pregnancy. Sometimes they may have it all through, although I must say that I VERY rarely hear about all through pregnancy. The burping is something that I am not sure about, is that being associated with a stomach upset of some kind? Have you ever had any gasto-intestinal issues before where you needed some prevacid or some other med?
Dont freak yourself out. Go and get a pregnancy test and take it. I cannot remember if you told me that your cycles were off at all. You know, there are pregnancy resource centers that can help with a free pregnancy test, SUPPORT emotionally, etc. I worked at one, and LOVED it soooo much. Just to see the girls come in SOOOO scared and have them go home encouraged, empowered, and support them. Often times, I would visit with them and call if they okd it,.
Look at it this way....tomorrow has ENOUGH worries of its own. Have your test done, and if you can have a TRUSTWORTHY friend go with you, have one go. Dont stifle your worries and fears, share them. Often times, other people WHO YOU CAN TRUST, can see alot more clearly and objectively and encourage you. Ok? Please let me know the outcome and how you are doing.
Please keep in touch, and if you need any information AT ALL, please dont hesitate to ask, ok? I hope I answered your questions you needed. I understand your hesitation to go to the doctor office, BEEN THERE. Fact is, my cycle is almost a month late right now. I wondered if it was the heat also. It has been REAL hot here in California.
Please take a test, and let me know how you are doing. Dont forget you can PM me. Ok? Blessings to you. If I didnt answer a question, dont hesitate to ask again.
Hizgrace
Boy, let me tell, memories came back when you mentioned checking to see of it was there. Alot of women are different, and they sometimes have a period or 2 during pregnancy. Sometimes they may have it all through, although I must say that I VERY rarely hear about all through pregnancy. The burping is something that I am not sure about, is that being associated with a stomach upset of some kind? Have you ever had any gasto-intestinal issues before where you needed some prevacid or some other med?
Dont freak yourself out. Go and get a pregnancy test and take it. I cannot remember if you told me that your cycles were off at all. You know, there are pregnancy resource centers that can help with a free pregnancy test, SUPPORT emotionally, etc. I worked at one, and LOVED it soooo much. Just to see the girls come in SOOOO scared and have them go home encouraged, empowered, and support them. Often times, I would visit with them and call if they okd it,.
Look at it this way....tomorrow has ENOUGH worries of its own. Have your test done, and if you can have a TRUSTWORTHY friend go with you, have one go. Dont stifle your worries and fears, share them. Often times, other people WHO YOU CAN TRUST, can see alot more clearly and objectively and encourage you. Ok? Please let me know the outcome and how you are doing.
Please keep in touch, and if you need any information AT ALL, please dont hesitate to ask, ok? I hope I answered your questions you needed. I understand your hesitation to go to the doctor office, BEEN THERE. Fact is, my cycle is almost a month late right now. I wondered if it was the heat also. It has been REAL hot here in California.
Please take a test, and let me know how you are doing. Dont forget you can PM me. Ok? Blessings to you. If I didnt answer a question, dont hesitate to ask again.
Hizgrace
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Most likely it's just stress. I was pregnant when I was younger than you. Having periods during pregnancy is very rare. Having irregular periods due to stress is very common. Stomach pains due to stress is extremely common, and if you stress yourself out enough you can make yourself nauseous and vomit. You probably won't be completely stress free until you get a pregnancy test but i would bet you a lot of money you're not pregnant. Touching yourself 15 minutes after you wiped your hands of semen is not a huge reason to worry- guys' little swimmers can't handle fresh air that long. Similar to some men I know ;-) get the test. Then when it comes out negative I recommend you get some nice smelling bubble bath, some fancy candles and a book and give yourself some much needed soak time and soak your stress away.
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