My fiance and I have been together for going on 5 1/2 years. we've been dating since we were 15 and are both 20 going on 21. We started having sex about one month into our relationship-we both lost our virginity to each other. Up until these last few months, our sex life was great. Sex was couple times a week! it was fun, exciting, everything you want sex and love to be. I love him and I know he loves me, but I never feel up to having sex anymore. I was on birthcontrol for 4 years of our relationship and stopped taking it about 8 months ago because it was making me tired constantly. Could this have something to do with the new me? I feel bad because he thinks its him now and its not. i'm still very much attracted to him. I just don't get excited about anything. we've talked about it plently of times because he gets upset when I don't want to. in return i get upset because I dont find that fair. we've tried sex in different areas, watching stuff, we've even go to adult stores together and i just feel awkward or something. i don't know exactly how I feel. Could someone please give me adice as to what to do! thanks!