So, Theres a friend I've been hanging around with for 4 years.
Now, Ever since he started smoking I've realized that he's been putting cigarettes, alcohol and money first instead of his friends.
Well, that's just the basics, Here's the full story.
He's currently claiming Social Welfare (€100 a week)
I myself, I get €40 once a month from a family member,
Now, Me, this friend and another good friend of mine always hang out together.
Lets say, The friend I'm talking about here is called "Alpha" and the other friend is "Bravo"..
Me, Alpha Bravo hang out every day. Some days Alpha complains saying to me "You're greedy, you never spend your money on anyone but yourself" Which is not true, I spend €20 on myself, the other €20 I'd be more than happy to get a few cans out of and share, or Tobacco packets and share. Which I have ALWAYS done in the past., Although most of the times he always complains that I never got enough.And also, Bare in mind, €40 euro a MONTH for me. €100 euro a WEEK for him, which he DOES spend on himself
Just two days ago we were all drinking, me, Alpha, Bravo and two other friends who are irrelevant,
Then Alpha started talking about me to the other guys as if I wasn't even there, So I got p*ssed off,
I started shouting at him giving out because he ALWAYS calls me Greedy and Ungrateful for not spending my once a month money on alcohol and drugs for him. Then he came up and punched me, Following my instinct and defending my self, I went to smash a bottle off his face but as soon as the glass glazed his face I was dragged back by someone.
Now after this fight, I wonder on peoples opinions.
Although my friends have said it to me themselves that "Alpha" is REALLY the greedy and ungrateful for wanting the only money that I ever see and then complaining if I do buy something for all of us, whether it be Alcohol, or Cigarettes.
What do you think, What is your opinions,
Am I greedy for feeding myself, clothing myself
Am I ungrateful for reasons he did not specify
Or is Alpha greedy for wanting all of my money on top of the €100 euro he gets that he spends €90 on himself
And is he REALLY the ungrateful one to complain all the time about the quantity of alcohol can's I purchase out of good will.
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You need to find some better people to hang with. People who will bring out the good in you, not the negative. He's the selfish one but you have set the bar really low when it comes to people you call 'friend'.
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Yeah I know, but where I live, everyone is the same.
They will turn their backs on you in a matter of seconds
they interfere with your life, trying to find out information they don't need to know
For example, I have my ex girlfriend on my facebook,
Since I started talking to her again, 8 of the people I know from my area have added her
Just to stick their noses into my business.
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