When you first contract genital herpes what does it look like? I know that it's kinda like a pimple/whitehead, but does it start out slow, with just several pimple like things? And is it itchy? And can you contract herpes from certain HPV? Me and my boyfriend had a threesome with my friend of 10yrs and she has HPV, not sure which kind, because I've heard there are several different kinds of HPV. He had sex with her without a condom(shes on birth control by the way) And me and her used the same vibrator back and forth....I know that we could have contracted something, and we are going to get an STD check, but she doesn't have a single bump or pimple like thing as far as we could see, unless it's inside inside her???? I need help, someone please answer me.