No hunny, redirecting to this instead of porn is c'mon genius what's a little much is when he choses somethin so meaningless and filthy instead of being with his beautiful woman he supposedly loves
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Its because he is bored with your stuff. not to sound mean but its the truth. tapping the same thing for years and years will do that to someone. it's nothing personal, but I know all the women out there will take it as that. also there is nothing wrong with masturbating, Its a normal, healthy part of life. maybe some of you women should try it.
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when he starts seeing porn go to him naked and try to knw what better things and which kind of things he likes in porn sites.if he like sucking penis then start doing it when he starts seeing penis sucking on computer.ask him to do the same things with u which he is seeing at the dvd like if he is seeing p***y licking get ur p***y on his liips and say to him to lick it.if he refuses doing all things say to him why i am here with u?if u dnt lyk me and u lyk porn rather than me then tell me i will leave u and spend ur whole lyf with this computer.(i am a boy and i knw how much difficult it is to leave seeing porn bt if he has gf to f**k and he prefers just to see on computer not doing sex then he is mad.coz not having any gf is understandable to see porn bt having it nd not doing sex is madness not addiction of seeing porn sites.
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sorry i wanted to answer but this editor keeps killing my text. using ff10 :-(
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I am male, i know the topic. and yes you should feel undesired, but not necessary
in a sexual way. This can also be a TRUST issue. If your partner thinks that you
would see him as a pervert, when he shares his fantasies with you, he might
rather continue fantasizing about them with the help of internet porn.
But also he is probably addicted to internet-porn. No real relationship can live
up to internetporn.
I have the following suggestions:
1.) Doing sports together. Jerking is an easy way to loose Testosteron. But think
of two types of testosteron. a "lazy testosteron" and a "energetic testosteron"
sex is energetic <==> jerking is lazy
If you move him to sports, he will want more energetic relieve, and this is only
received through sex
2.) Roleplay. If fantasy is his thing, allow him to live his fantasy with you.
But make sure, to address the trust issue before trying roleplay. If a roleplay
goes south - misunderstanding and mistrust will make all worse
3.) visit a therapist, first alone than together, be prepared, that the first
few therapists are not qualified, and that you have to open up a few times to
strangers with very intimate stories :-
4.) Leave him, if your pain is greater, than beeing alone, if not, ask yourself
why, is that so?
Good luck choosing "the right one" ;-)
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I'm in the same situation. I asked him how long he plans to prioritize his jacking off and he said "as long as it still works". If this lasts until we are in our 60"s my depression will eat me up. I want out. His love should be greater. His respect for me should matter. I feel used. I can't please myself so I'm stuck in a sexless relationship. I'd rather be alone because at least I didn't feel lonely. Being with this guy is a waste of my life.
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Did any of you lady's ever think that maybe your vagina has a odor coming from it? because i left my ex girlfriend because of that problem, And it is verry hard for a man to tell a woman that her stuff smells trust me..but hope that helps
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Islam is the best. pointed the rule for male and female what a male should do for female and what female should do for male I love Islam.
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I've been dealing with this for over a year with my bf. It used to be his phone, now he takes his whole lap top in there! Jesus! I'm so done but I'm gonna see if maybe. MAYBE, I can get him to give a sh*t about my needs. I'm going to lock myself in the bathroom and masturbate too. Annnnnnytime I think he might want some. Wish me luck. And guys, your hand will never be as sweet and awesome as our beautiful lady parts! You guys SUCK!
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My husband is the same way! Except he doesn't have any weird sex toys of the sort. I'm so sick of it. He constantly lies right to my face about it. I've recorded him one day while I was at work and he was home. The stuff I heard him say to the computer was enough to leave him and hate his guts. Unfortunately for me I believed his lie that he'd never look at it again. He promised me he was done. He is a sick man! He thinks I don't know he's still looking at it. It's sad because I really lived and trusted him soley now it's a love hate relationship. I'm seriously thinking on taking my ex's advice about what to do. My ex from a long time ago gave me some very good advice and I'm realky considering on taking him up on his offer. He is a decent man that loves me and woukd never hurt me now that he realizes he made a big mistake in not making a true relationship between us. He has practically begged me to listen to him about my now husband. I can't even tell you how bad/sad my husband makes me ferl by jacking off to these fake woman. None of these woman would even give him the time or day to be with him they are sick individuals as well. They show off their bodies to to destroy marriages/relationships they don't care about nobody but themselves. I say make all porn sites pay sites or get it off the internet. It's a disgrace.
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I agree with u but these men want it both ways and unfortunately I'm not one to give in to his sickness. I will never go for him looking at another woman and jacking off to them. That's cheating, he of course says different but it's being stimulated by another womans body. Makes me very angry and who knows what I might do to the ignorant pig.
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I have the exact same problem and I have done many things to spark my boyfriend of 3 years interest..... leaving my panties in his lunch bag with a sexy note , I made him a video of myself masturbating. I am very open and willing in the bedroom to oral, anal , everything!!! He rejects me continually and I just don't understand why. I am 8 years younger than him and in very good shape :) When do you decide you know you've done everything you can, love sometimes just isn't enough. Very hard to leave :(
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I'm a man that masturbates 3 times a day, and has sex with my wife twice a month! It's not the feeling of her not being attractive, but the feelinghunt for men is gone. So we do such in our minds... Yes we are thinking of other people but it's our natural nature I believe
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Have you triend losing some weight and washing yourself down under. Is it possible that you are disgustingly obese and have rotting flesh between your fat folds? Why don't you hit him with a little of his own medicine. Get a big black dildo and start looking at websites with young black guys with big penises and masturbating next to him. You can even say things like, "Oh Jerome you're so big, so much bigger than my baby penis husband!" JEROME!!!!! BIG Black penis!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It's ok, if it helps... I'm 25 and my BOYFRIEND for 4 months is 27 and he masterbates in the bathroom even though I am will to have sex with him every single time he has a boner. We never have sex at night, he jacks off before I get home from work, or in the morning. I can be in bed with him in the morning, ready to go, and he will get up and masterbate in the bathroom instead!
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i knew i wasnt alone in my thought process. i am a very sexual girl who likes to please my man. its r job to make sure r partner is satisfied so i like 2 get each other off all the time..i never turned down my guy for sex but then i found all this porn on his phone..his laptop history..it made me fucken sick...i dont wanna be and refuse to be an option on how my man gets off. im a very good lookn chic who has a lot of confidence but he killed my confidence by seeing all the stuff he beats off to. he tried lying and denying it until i threw it all in his face with proof. he said it disgusted him n he felt awful for seeing how hurt it made...but then a as soon as we didt spend a night together he beat off again...screw that. i dont want to have to be with my partner 24 7 just to make sure hes not masterbating...if i didnt pleasure him all the time n wasnt willing to get him off whenever wherever id understand but when u have a partner whose willing all the time then hell have some self control and wait till you are with ur partner again to relieve tht urge together...if you cant wait a few hours thats pathetic...like i said i refused to be an option and aftr seeing how sick he is n what he does in private i left his ass. he can beat off all he wants now. i know 1 day ill find a real man who will save all his sexual urges for me and only me. never settle ladies. there is a lot of pigs out there
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