Hi there,
I'm not even sure how common this is in males, normally I hear about the complete opposite (i.e. Premature Ejaculation), however I have a problem with taking far too long to orgasm...
It's very nerve racking for both me and my partner, because even with their best efforts sometimes I just can't seem to finish, which simply leaves both of us tired and frustrated.
Not to mention watching them orgasm with such ease is really causing me some problems with jealousy, and I don't like it one bit.
I find I constantly either lose focus, and have to try to focus very hard on reaching climax.. which not only takes half the fun out of it, but also makes me feel even more self concious during sexual acts.
I am extremely attracted to my partner, and we've tried several different things, all of which feel amazing at the time, but just NOTHING seems to get me there.
Aside from seeking some sort of psychiatric help, does anyone know of medication to help QUICKEN orgasm? I figure there must me something out there... we're hoping for something easier than spending hundreds to thousands on counseling.
Please let me know!
I'm not even sure how common this is in males, normally I hear about the complete opposite (i.e. Premature Ejaculation), however I have a problem with taking far too long to orgasm...
It's very nerve racking for both me and my partner, because even with their best efforts sometimes I just can't seem to finish, which simply leaves both of us tired and frustrated.
Not to mention watching them orgasm with such ease is really causing me some problems with jealousy, and I don't like it one bit.
I find I constantly either lose focus, and have to try to focus very hard on reaching climax.. which not only takes half the fun out of it, but also makes me feel even more self concious during sexual acts.
I am extremely attracted to my partner, and we've tried several different things, all of which feel amazing at the time, but just NOTHING seems to get me there.
Aside from seeking some sort of psychiatric help, does anyone know of medication to help QUICKEN orgasm? I figure there must me something out there... we're hoping for something easier than spending hundreds to thousands on counseling.
Please let me know!
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You don't mention your age, but here's a few basics.
No, there is no magic cure.
Yes, there are some things you can do.
First, relax. Seriously. relax... that will help you get in the mood.
Second, don't come so often. Don't masturbate, don't have sex... don't come so often...and you'll find it easier to reach climax.
Third, some recommend after step two above, that on the day (or night) that you want to climax with your partner sooner... that you start the evening by masturbating alone to arouse yourself BUT NOT CLIMAX. Some claim by "priming the pump" you can then reach orgasm sooner. Others claim that this will blunt your response and make it last longer. The jury is still out on this.
I happen to be falling into this delayed ejaculation pattern also...but this is after 40 years of orgasms and sexual behavior, so I'm entitled. Ha!
But if you relax and not try to orgasm as often, you'll probably find you'll come easier and sooner. Just make sure you are using protection. nothing kills the thrill of climax more than to have a kid before you're ready.
Good luck, and let us know what you try and how it works for you.
No, there is no magic cure.
Yes, there are some things you can do.
First, relax. Seriously. relax... that will help you get in the mood.
Second, don't come so often. Don't masturbate, don't have sex... don't come so often...and you'll find it easier to reach climax.
Third, some recommend after step two above, that on the day (or night) that you want to climax with your partner sooner... that you start the evening by masturbating alone to arouse yourself BUT NOT CLIMAX. Some claim by "priming the pump" you can then reach orgasm sooner. Others claim that this will blunt your response and make it last longer. The jury is still out on this.
I happen to be falling into this delayed ejaculation pattern also...but this is after 40 years of orgasms and sexual behavior, so I'm entitled. Ha!
But if you relax and not try to orgasm as often, you'll probably find you'll come easier and sooner. Just make sure you are using protection. nothing kills the thrill of climax more than to have a kid before you're ready.
Good luck, and let us know what you try and how it works for you.
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