I am a 24 year old female i have had a few sexual partners but each of them i have been with over a year. I have a problem when it comes to orgasm's i just can't seem to let myself go, this never use to bother me much but i am with someone who i love dearly and would just like it to just happen. I know when something is about to happen i get this really intense feeling sometimes the feeling like i need to urinate but i don't and my body starts twitching. But i find once i get to this point i start tensing up and sort of holding my breath then i eventually make them stop. I really can't answer why i do this maybe im scared of what will happen i don't know its really starting to bug me a bit now and is playing on my mind a lot which i guess don't help. So i was just wondering if anyone could give me some suggestions on maybe what i could do to help me. My current partner has said i just need to relax and let myself go but its easier said then done. Any advice and suggestions would be great thank you :-)
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Well did you ever masturbated? That is the best solution for you to learn how to reach the orgasm.
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I have the same exact problem and it happens when I masturbate as well! I get the same feeling of pressure as if you're about to urinate and tension in my muscles but i can never seem to get over that point on my own or with a partner (I usually tell them to stop even though I just want to get past that point). I'm hoping someone has advice on techniques to get past this or at least an explanation. I'm sorry I could not be of much help but I just wanted to let you know you are not alone %-)
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will iam 32 yrs female but when iam orgasm i lost contorl of the stuff coming out is that normal for a female
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Honey. I have the same problem. I don't ever get past the point of cumming. Im tired if always almost being there. It's almost a painful feeling. Well not painful just unpleasant. I need help. I want to cum. I just don't.
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I am 33! Im in a new relationship, and its with my best friend. I love him to bits and we have a great sex life. But I have the same problem! I was in a relationship for 14 years with someone else and it didn't bother me or him! But my new partner really wants it to happen and so do I! I try to relax and do so for a while, but once it gets so far, I push him off or away! I know exactly how you feel!
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Hey! My boyfriend is my bestfriend and well as much as I try to continue I can't my legs automatically close. It's annoying! #notalone
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what happens to all of you is that you are about to come as guys do... i mean, ejaculate... that´s the reason for that "about to urinate" felling. Read about that... its supposed to be the ultimate sensation ever
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this is the worst advice ever! I have the same problem as her and if I hear one more time I just need to reach it myself I'm going to punch someone.
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I have the same problem and im only 19 years old when a about to my body wont let me. I start to think about a lot of things
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i have the exact same problem... the only time i've allowed myself to is when im drunk lol. i wish someone would give me advice on how to just let it happen but even during masturbation as soon as i feel it about to happen my legs go together and i stop naturally; even though i really want it to happen, my body uncontrollably tries to stop it . WHY and what do we doooo to fix it!?!?!
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You probably don't want my advice but the two times I have I had to be tied up. It was discussed prior and it was great but I won't allow it otherwise. Kind of sick
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Me too!! I know HOW to and I have achieved it before with partners. I have PTSD so I wonder if it has something to do with that, not being about to be vulnerable?
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