Hey everybody. My wife and I have had an average to slightly above average sex life until about a year ago. She had her Gall bladder removed early last year and ever since then she has lost all desire to have sex. She has put on some wight whick I think is contributing to the problem, but I am going crazy
I have tried everything I can think of. I have acted like I dont care about sex. I have tried the guilt thing, the pestering thing, the romantic thing... You name it I have tried it !
Any suggestions???
I have tried everything I can think of. I have acted like I dont care about sex. I have tried the guilt thing, the pestering thing, the romantic thing... You name it I have tried it !
Any suggestions???
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Frankly, it sounds like you are trying to manipulate your spouse into having sex with you.
I would prefer to hear that you have sat down and had a frank discussion with her.
But, since you apparantly didn't do that, let me say this:
Your sexual needs are important, and you clearly want your sex life to r eturn to what it once was.
I would speak to her directly, but even if that doesn't happen, the two of you need to see a counselor.
Perhaps they can help your relationship, but they also may be able to help you communicate more clearly.
From the little that you've shared, you are on a road to trouble. Get counseling.
I would prefer to hear that you have sat down and had a frank discussion with her.
But, since you apparantly didn't do that, let me say this:
Your sexual needs are important, and you clearly want your sex life to r eturn to what it once was.
I would speak to her directly, but even if that doesn't happen, the two of you need to see a counselor.
Perhaps they can help your relationship, but they also may be able to help you communicate more clearly.
From the little that you've shared, you are on a road to trouble. Get counseling.
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