I would greatly appreciate any input on this distressing issue. Ive been married for 13 yrs to a wonderful man and have 2 children. Even before marriage there was an issue of my sex drive being more elivated than his. Throughout our marriage ive dealt w/it. However, now i feel at the end of my rope. When we do have sex it can be great, but its just not enough for me. I dont think my sex drive is ridiculosly high, but defininately higher than his. Ive not been unfaithful as of yet, but how much more am I expected to take(or not take).
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Before you throw in the towel, talk to him. Maybe counseling wouldn't hurt either of you. You want it all the time, him..not so much.
Your not "expected" to take anything, but how will he know how unhappy you are if you don't say something?
Your not "expected" to take anything, but how will he know how unhappy you are if you don't say something?
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oh my gosh- thank you for the response. Allow me to elaborate. I have talked so much (without being a nag) that I can find no more words to say. Ive made sure he knew I was interested and Ive tried acting like I didnt care one way or the other to try taking any pressure off. if that was an issue. Ive read books, watched doctors speaking on sexual subjects, asked my husband what turns him on. I have by no means let myself go and im not a nagging person. I weighed about 130ish lwhen married and now am 140ish, but have been told i am a very attractive woman.
The only response Ive gotten lately is "i cant do it every night." I have never expected nightly sex, but weekly would be nice. Biweekly would be acceptable I guess. Am I over sexual??????
The only response Ive gotten lately is "i cant do it every night." I have never expected nightly sex, but weekly would be nice. Biweekly would be acceptable I guess. Am I over sexual??????
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I'm the husband and i am in the same boat, my appetite is more than hers, but i dot consider myself as over sexual. I will take twice a week with her appetite, but what i get if i initiate is twice or thrice a month. I have done ll the talking and complaining and she called me a nagger,so if i even open my mouth, am just nagging her. She is a bully when it comes to intimacy, its her way or no way and i better just shut my mouth and accept it. I refuse to cheat so i have resorted to a life a daily masturbation. I have been married 17 years, the only times when we had sex like twice a week was before the kids. Now not even oral, its really frustrating, she doesn't think anything is wrong with her, its normal to just do it the few times we do in her eyes. The selfish part is she does not even consider my feelings nor even try to accommodate it, its just plain selfish. In my forties and still turned on. I miss giving her oral, its been over 3 years. She wont let me anymore. Its her world, her rules, her vagina, her everything. It SUCKS!!!!!
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