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kate37
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 Posted: 01/24/07 - 16:35 Post subject: Should i have a labia reduction? |
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im only a teenager but i'm seriously considering having a labia reduction, i am so self concious!! I have always been a little self concious because of how big my labia is. And after i lost my virginity the self esteem i had dissapeared. The guy decided he hated me, told all his friends about my large labia and did everything possible to hurt me!
It has been a year since then and i still feel like i can never trust a guy in that way again! Unless i have surgery i can't imagine myself ever having the courage to do anything other than kiss a man!!! I know the surgery is painful and i sound stupid but i can't even describe how i feel so please try and understand. Because i know my feelings will never change. Write back soon please if you can help.  |
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helpisontheway
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| Posted: 01/24/07 - 18:56 Post subject: |
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I know how you feel, my clitoral hood is a little large, when i can feel him moving it to get to my clitoris... and when it desensitizes any intimacy because its hidden behind a fold of flesh its upsetting.
But since I have found my boyfreind I have come to realise that genitals come in all different shapes and sizes! differenciation is NORMAL!
and beleive me the feeling is better than any surgery you could ever afford, I dont even think about it any more, because we were such good mates for so many years sex wasn't even considered on a physical level. it was emotional, spiritual.
you will find someone like that.
but this is my point! Think of the long run!!!
You shouldn't have body-altering surgery based on what other people think! you should love yourself! when you fall in love with the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with do you think he will care about the appearance of your labia?! of course not! even you can't even see it most of the time!!!
don't feel hurt by this insensitive guys actions. he probably was just in it for sex - guys can be cruel. the only labia a teenage boy has seen is the airbrushed designer ones in porn (- and beleive me, they are!). which are obviously not true to real life!!!
surgery is permanent, it leaves scars.
this assholes cruel remarks wont. |
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mollia
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| Posted: 06/09/07 - 17:13 Post subject: labia reduction |
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HI
I have gotten it done few days ago, and its in process of healing, and I understand about feeling different and making you feel uncomfortable during sex, no matter how much in love you are, you might not even fall in love or make love b/c of this issue.
I would say if it will make you feel better then go ahead and do it, just do alot of research on it so you know what to expect
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Frazzle
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Hi Mollia
I'm also looking for a surgeon...would you mind providing me the contact infor for your surgeon?
Also, was there anything that you have found out after the surgergy that you were not expecting? Good or bad? |
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