masterbation and the inability to ejaculate during sex

shalinda · Newbie Joined: 09 Apr 2007 Posts: 2

My boyfriend can not ejaculate during sex. He says it is not me it is him. He thinks that because he has been alone for so long and has been masterbating for many years that he can not ejaculate unless he masterbates. I have tried many things to get him to ejaculate with me but have failed each time. The only time he can is when he does it himself.
Is there anything that can be done?

hondafan · Newbie Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 24

i had this recently but seemed to be getting over it now i just stoped masturbating and soon enough the magic happened Wink

b55 · Newbie Joined: 12 Apr 2007 Posts: 3

Same here. I found that once I stopped masturbating for a week or two it was much easier to ejaculate during sex.

shalinda · Newbie Joined: 09 Apr 2007 Posts: 2

Thanks.. now I just have to find a good way to tell him to stop..hehe Very Happy

hondafan · Newbie Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 24

tell him it will be wurth it if not black mail him into stopping Wink

worked for me Twisted Evil

THEBIGFELLA · Newbie Joined: 21 Feb 2008 Posts: 1

hey ive the got the same problem but i thought it was cause of my weight im about 120 130kgs would that have anything to do with it or just masturbating too much and is it completely stop for 1 or 2 weeks or almost none? thanks

bud1975 · Newbie Joined: 27 Apr 2008 Posts: 4 Location: Indiana, USA

Hi,
I am having the same problem as your boyfriend. I have been masturbating for about 15 years and now that I have found a great woman that I care for very much and when we have sex I can't cum at all. We have had sex about 6 times.
I am going to keep from masturbating and see if that helps. I hope it does. I do know that when I masturbate I used to be a little rough, so that may be part of the problem.

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