Ejaculation Problems During Sex And Masturbation

Well, I know how you’re feeling right now and I would really like to help you. First, I don’t think that you are the cause because you didn’t mention that you have some marriage problems and even the fact you want to improve your sex so much is telling that this isn’t the problem.
Your husband’s inability to orgasm is probably due to stress.
There is also one other possible cause. He could be trying to control his orgasm so that he doesn't ejaculate too soon, so this delaying could cause that he don’t ejaculate at all.
So, I have only one advice for you- taking the pressure of ejaculating off of his shoulders may ease his stress and definitely improve your mutual sexual experience.

[i am 17 year old lad who has no problem ejaculating whilest in masturbation however will tend to go for an our and a half whilst having sex with my girlfriend and eventually have to stop because she claims it is hurting her as i am young this is really frustrating for both of us and i am really confused ad consernd about this so your not alone

i'm a 26 yr old female, about to get married, and i just found out yesterday that my soon to be husband has problems ejaculating during sex. the reason that i just found about this yesterday, (after 2 yrs being together), was just because the pregnancy test came out negative. he states that the reason that he can't ejaculate it's because of stress and because he has too many things going on in his head. right now i'm so confused, i don't know what to think, i have mixed emotions right know, and i feel betraid because he didn't tell me before and because he didn't trust in me, not really because he can ejaculate but becasue he didn't tell me. should i be mad at him or should we talk this over like a couple, because i know that this is not his problem, is our problem

Hi!
When men can't ejaculate during sex, it's important to realize it isn't the woman's fault.
This is actually a fairly common condition called delayed ejaculation.
You can read about it (and get a solution) here: ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed
Fred

As embarrassing as this is to ask, I find it relatively important. I recently had intercourse for the first time and I was wondering if you can feel when you going to ejaculate.

hey the dude that is talking about having no problem with ejaculation during masturbation but cant while having sexual intercourse... i know exactly what you mean and its really bugging me, i recently had sex and she thinks its her fault that i didnt ejaculate.. it was my first time and it pisses me off that i cant prove to her that its not her.... if anybody knows the problem please let me know..

hi im 13 yrs old and when i masturbate i cant seem to ejaculate semen and im done with puberty and only urine comes never once has semen come out do you hav any answers?

I sometimes cannot come if i drink too much coffee, don't know if this would give anyone a starting point.

Its not your fault.  Have him get checked for Low-T.  It could be that he is stessed, nerveous about something. 

From a guy's perspective, and without repeating what other people have said on here about stress, it could be that he's just plain bored with your guys' sex life.  Stress might be PART of the problem, but if he's also bored and you guys are in a rut sexually, you can't rule that out.  Sex is a critical part of any marriage.  It's amazing how many couples are together for many years, but they rarely, if ever, talk about sex!  How crazy is that?  A lot of couples assume their partner will "just know" what they want, but the problem is, sex can get old and stale after awhile.  The solution?  Approach the problem together as a team -- it's not just one person's problem.  It might sound cliche, but communication is key.  Whether you are the husband or wife, neither one of you are mind readers.  So don't assume anything about what your partner likes about sex.  Sit down and talk about it.  If you want more information, read the book "Sex Starved Marriage" by Michele Weiner-Davis.  It will have the answers you're looking for and I highly recommend it.

my husband is having the same problems when we have sex and when he is masturbating... he wont get hurt if he doesnt masturbate?

if he doesnt nutt i mean... its killing me cause he is worring the HELL out of me and this is the first time this has happened to him.... HEs been having this problem for a week

I'm 26 and have serious injuries to my body. Have found realizing pharmacists have confirmed that many medications can cause the symptoms, opiates, lyrica both almost inposable an have to end sex because she's had a few or more an gets to sensitive to continue. However if you're on any medications ask your pharmacist about any sexual side effects.

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> OUT...R
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> If
> this works, it's great. I have not burned myself
> lately!!!!

> Some time
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>
> the
> boiling water to see if the corn was ready. I
> missed and
> my hand
> went into the boiling water....!!
>
>
> A friend
> of mine, who was a Vietnam vet, came into the
> house
> as I was
> screaming & asked him if he had some plain old
>
> flour...
> I pulled out a bag and he stuck my hand in it. He
> told me to keep my
> hand in the flour for 10 minutes.
> He
> said that in Vietnam, there was a guy on
> fire and
> in their
> panic, they threw a bag of flour all over him to
>
> put the
> fire out...Well, it not only put the fire out, but
>
> he never
> even had a blister!!!!
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>
>
>
> Long
> story short, I put my hand in the bag of flour for 10
>
> min.,
> pulled it out and did not even have a red mark or a
>
> blister
> & absolutely NO PAIN.
>
> Now, I
> keep a bag of flour in the fridge and every time I
>
> burn
> myself. *Cold flour feels even better than room
>
> temperature
> flour.
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>
> I use
> the flour and
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>
> mark, or
> a blister!
> I even
> burnt my tongue once, put the flour on it for
> about
> 10
> minutes .... the pain was gone and no burn.
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>
>
> Try it . If you ever get a burn.
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>
>
>
>
> Keep a
> bag of flour in your fridge and you will be happy
> you
> did!
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>
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> Flour
> has heat absorbent property and also has a strong
>
> antioxidant
> property, thus it helps in burn patients if
>
> applied
> within 15 minutes.
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> "When
> someone shares something of value with you and
>
> you
> benefit from it, you have a moral obligation to share it
>
> with
> others" .