Hello. I'm 23 years old so I've been at this for awhile. The only time any kind of climax happens is when I'm on my back, rubbing my clitoris with my fingers or a vibrator. I have never reached climax with anything inside me. I try new things and nothing seems to work. I know every womans orgasm is different and I guess what I'm having is my orgasm but I can't help but think theres something more. If I try to use a vibrator and get further than usual, it feels too intense on some areas where I HAVE to pull away. I try not to, but it just happens. I've tried using a dildo, other objects, humping a pillow, using the shower head and they dont really work. Its frustrating and we all know that doesn't help the situation.
I'm not really sure what my question is. I guess What do you think I should do? I hate when people say I just have to relax...no, not the problem. Does anyone have any techniques I can try next time I'm alone? Also, with the shower head; I wasnt positive what i was supposed to do. Let it hit my clitoris or what?
I'm frustrated because after many, many years, I dont feel that I am reaching what everyone is describing.
Please, any information you have will help. Thank you go much.
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Hi, first with the shower head you just let the spray hit your slit or pretty much where ever it feels best on whatever setting feels best; some like it hard others soft; to me it seems like it would be best to start by letting just a small warm stream flow over the slit with bubble bath rubbed all over your flat part (not sure what to call it) than as you get wetter or more ready turn the heat up a little at a time and adjust the setting to a spary with more water flow working your way up to the massage setting, water all the way on and as hot as you can stand. Rubing your boobs or maybe even sucking them if you can reach them or using a breast pump, and if you suck or pump long enough and regular enough than you might even give a little milk (don't know about milk for sure but all I can find says yes you can). A little soap peice inside might burn a little but might be what it takes; and hey if that feels good you might make a soap dildo out of a bar. When you do use your fingers inside run one up the front and feel for a soft pad that feels kinda like the top of your tonge then rub it with more or less pressure to find the point thats best, for the girls I've been with fast and hard till you fill yourself tighting up your legs/hips or between your legs and/or high heart rate than stoping or atleast slowing and being softer till you lossen up than starting and stoping again till you reach that point of no return and you will. When you reach the point that you feel like you need to pee just make sure you have a towel under you or are where you can clean up easy and push hard kinda like when you are trying to empty your bladder completly hopefully it will be girl cum which shoud be a sticky whiteish or clearish simi-liquid, but if it is pee well than you will have an empty bladder and can try again no one has to know you peed unless your in to that and hey peeing your panties might just be what it takes to really get you all worked up so you can reach orgasm but if you can cum than it should be more intense and longer lasting. You might do well to stick a finger in your pee hole if it will fit or something else small just be careful not to stick anything in that you can't pull back out or someting not clean, and that goes for all holes. As for if you do cum than that or your base wetness or even chapstick or lip gloss can be wiped with a finger and rubbed other places your panties cover or even your bellybutton, infact the bellybutton is a place of great senitivity to many, some will go off just by having it touched or fingered so to speak. A tampon in will also help some and may even let you have a light orgasm all day without anyone knowing. One girl I was with loved it when I would rub her nipples and around her boobs sometimes she would even take one of my hands and put it up her shirt to where it was just under her boob than take the other one and litely brush the nipple, those days that started like that made her warmer and wetter than the ones where I would do the same thing or just go for a little boob than down the panties. But other days it would take a little pressure on the tail bone by putting my finger down her crack and pulling up on the bone, but be gental or it will end up being a turn off and you will have to start all over when it quits hurting. Since we're at the butt a little rubbing of the crack or the hips or spanking can be what really gets you hot and wet. For spanking your self use a switch or maybe your hand just be sure not to get your hand to sore or you won't feel like fingering yourself. Sometimes I even sit on my hands untill they are tingleing than use them, it feels kinda like someone else is touching me. Than there is always porn maybe guy, guy and girl, girl masterbation, or girl on girl, infact many like 2 or more girls masterbating together and it is not all men many women like that as well and will even copy what they do while watching them just be sure to turn your web cam where it can not see you and turn your mic off or unplug them unless you like or find it a turn on that someone might see or hear you I don't but to each there own. You might also look at other girls in panties because that is a big turn on for some or even do so with another girl. Another thing that might help is to burn candles or place flowers around to make it smell sweet along with soft music no words and low lights, or maybe mid-level lights and a mirror to watch yourself; just make sure not to tip candles during play. You might even try stuffed toys, plastic toys (dolls, water guns, foods, masks so you don't see your face or see someone you fanize about), or even dress up as a charctor that you always wanted to be. Some even sit on washer (spin cycle) or dryer, slide on couch arm or door knobs, bottles and game controlers. Good luck and please tell what of this if any worked or what you find that does.
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Hi, first with the shower head you just let the spray hit your slit or pretty much where ever it feels best on whatever setting feels best; some like it hard others soft; to me it seems like it would be best to start by letting just a small warm stream flow over the slit with bubble bath rubbed all over your flat part (not sure what to call it) than as you get wetter or more ready turn the heat up a little at a time and adjust the setting to a spary with more water flow working your way up to the massage setting, water all the way on and as hot as you can stand. Rubing your boobs or maybe even sucking them if you can reach them or using a breast pump, and if you suck or pump long enough and regular enough than you might even give a little milk (don't know about milk for sure but all I can find says yes you can). A little soap peice inside might burn a little but might be what it takes; and hey if that feels good you might make a soap dildo out of a bar. When you do use your fingers inside run one up the front and feel for a soft pad that feels kinda like the top of your tonge then rub it with more or less pressure to find the point thats best, for the girls I've been with fast and hard till you fill yourself tighting up your legs/hips or between your legs and/or high heart rate than stoping or atleast slowing and being softer till you lossen up than starting and stoping again till you reach that point of no return and you will. When you reach the point that you feel like you need to pee just make sure you have a towel under you or are where you can clean up easy and push hard kinda like when you are trying to empty your bladder completly hopefully it will be girl cum which shoud be a sticky whiteish or clearish simi-liquid, but if it is pee well than you will have an empty bladder and can try again no one has to know you peed unless your in to that and hey peeing your panties might just be what it takes to really get you all worked up so you can reach orgasm but if you can cum than it should be more intense and longer lasting. You might do well to stick a finger in your pee hole if it will fit or something else small just be careful not to stick anything in that you can't pull back out or someting not clean, and that goes for all holes. As for if you do cum than that or your base wetness or even chapstick or lip gloss can be wiped with a finger and rubbed other places your panties cover or even your bellybutton, infact the bellybutton is a place of great senitivity to many, some will go off just by having it touched or fingered so to speak. A tampon in will also help some and may even let you have a light orgasm all day without anyone knowing. One girl I was with loved it when I would rub her nipples and around her boobs sometimes she would even take one of my hands and put it up her shirt to where it was just under her boob than take the other one and litely brush the nipple, those days that started like that made her warmer and wetter than the ones where I would do the same thing or just go for a little boob than down the panties. But other days it would take a little pressure on the tail bone by putting my finger down her crack and pulling up on the bone, but be gental or it will end up being a turn off and you will have to start all over when it quits hurting. Since we're at the butt a little rubbing of the crack or the hips or spanking can be what really gets you hot and wet. For spanking your self use a switch or maybe your hand just be sure not to get your hand to sore or you won't feel like fingering yourself. Sometimes I even sit on my hands untill they are tingleing than use them, it feels kinda like someone else is touching me. Than there is always porn maybe guy, guy and girl, girl masterbation, or girl on girl, infact many like 2 or more girls masterbating together and it is not all men many women like that as well and will even copy what they do while watching them just be sure to turn your web cam where it can not see you and turn your mic off or unplug them unless you like or find it a turn on that someone might see or hear you I don't but to each there own. You might also look at other girls in panties because that is a big turn on for some or even do so with another girl. Another thing that might help is to burn candles or place flowers around to make it smell sweet along with soft music no words and low lights, or maybe mid-level lights and a mirror to watch yourself; just make sure not to tip candles during play. You might even try stuffed toys plastic toys (dolls, water guns, foods, masks so you don't see your face or see someone you fanize about), or even dress up as a charctor that you always wanted to be. Some even sit on washer (spin cycle) or dryer, slide on couch arm or door knobs, bottles and game controlers. Good luck and please tell what of this if any worked or what you find that does.
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