hi. im a male, almost 16, (my birthday is in 12 days), im about 5'1 and i wrigh 130 lbs., and i hate myself. I REALLY hate the way i look. People constantly remind me of how ugly i am and it really depresses me. I asked a girl out not too long ago and she responds with "youre sweet but too ugly". I mean even on facebook i was ranked dead last on the "who's hotter" list. I usually didnt care but now i keep getting depressed. I will be attending a new school in the fall, ill be a junior, and i need to know how to change my looks. Please help. Gimmie advice on how to look even somewhat attractive. Im miserable and tired of being called ugly. Please help.
Heres a pic of me. Gimmie some help? Please. Im desperate.
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Thanks.
-Nikolai
Heres a pic of me. Gimmie some help? Please. Im desperate.
***edited by moderator***no photos allowed***
Thanks.
-Nikolai
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Sorry hon, i had to remove your pic, not that it was offensive or anything, just following the rules.
From what i saw, you are not ugly at all. As far as your height, you have some grow time left until you stop, and you will gain more weight with each spurt.
And that chic who said you were ugly is mean and rude. She could have the most beautiful face, but her remarks make her ugly. You wouldn't want some shallow person like that anyway.
I can't tell you how to make yourself attractive as we have to live with what we have, but you don't need much improvement anyway. Maybe a better haircut would work. Your face looks clear, that's good.
Just be nice and sweet, but don't be a pushover either. Put yourself out there but don't look desperate. Your charming personality will eventually land you the hottest chick in the block. Keep a circle of friends, being a loner makes you look weird to the girls and you don't want to be a pity date. Your young now and you want instant good looks, but it doesn't work that way. Beauty comes from within. Keep up your hygiene, keep your teeth nice and pretty, and keep your head up when you walk. There is no instant beauty makeover that will make the girls fall at your feet. Start working on your body, lift some weights, you need to gain muscle mass. This will help with your confidence. The changes will not happen overnite, but they will eventually. You'll be okay, 16 is an akward age and you all try to fit in, you will, just be confident.
From what i saw, you are not ugly at all. As far as your height, you have some grow time left until you stop, and you will gain more weight with each spurt.
And that chic who said you were ugly is mean and rude. She could have the most beautiful face, but her remarks make her ugly. You wouldn't want some shallow person like that anyway.
I can't tell you how to make yourself attractive as we have to live with what we have, but you don't need much improvement anyway. Maybe a better haircut would work. Your face looks clear, that's good.
Just be nice and sweet, but don't be a pushover either. Put yourself out there but don't look desperate. Your charming personality will eventually land you the hottest chick in the block. Keep a circle of friends, being a loner makes you look weird to the girls and you don't want to be a pity date. Your young now and you want instant good looks, but it doesn't work that way. Beauty comes from within. Keep up your hygiene, keep your teeth nice and pretty, and keep your head up when you walk. There is no instant beauty makeover that will make the girls fall at your feet. Start working on your body, lift some weights, you need to gain muscle mass. This will help with your confidence. The changes will not happen overnite, but they will eventually. You'll be okay, 16 is an akward age and you all try to fit in, you will, just be confident.
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I'm so sorry! Whoever is calling you ugly and putting you on "who's hot" lists is mean and cruel. You don't deserve that kind of treatment.
I can relate a lot to this. I haven't had a lot of people tell me I'm ugly, per se, but I constantly get comments about how much hotter my sister is than me. Granted, she is very beautiful. She's been approached numerous times to be a model. I even did some modeling when I was a young teen. But even with modeling on my resume, I can feel very ugly and worthless when people make comments like, "Well, you're cute/cool/etc., but your sister is WAY better looking than you!"
Luckily for me, I'm now married to a wonderful, handsome man who makes me feel very beautiful. He tells me he thinks I'm beautiful and the way he treats me makes me feel as such. I suggest you surround yourself with people who make you feel good. I know I don't deserve the comments I get from people who compare me to my sister. I have to distance myself from either the people or the comments because I deserve better as a human being. And like me, I know you'll be able to find a person who makes you feel special, good-looking, sexy, etc. Believe that you deserve that type of relationship and it will find you. It may not be for a while, seen as how you're 16. Comments may never stop. (After all, people like to be cruel to one another.) But don't believe the comments! Believe that you're an important, beautiful person who deserves to be treated that way.
I can relate a lot to this. I haven't had a lot of people tell me I'm ugly, per se, but I constantly get comments about how much hotter my sister is than me. Granted, she is very beautiful. She's been approached numerous times to be a model. I even did some modeling when I was a young teen. But even with modeling on my resume, I can feel very ugly and worthless when people make comments like, "Well, you're cute/cool/etc., but your sister is WAY better looking than you!"
Luckily for me, I'm now married to a wonderful, handsome man who makes me feel very beautiful. He tells me he thinks I'm beautiful and the way he treats me makes me feel as such. I suggest you surround yourself with people who make you feel good. I know I don't deserve the comments I get from people who compare me to my sister. I have to distance myself from either the people or the comments because I deserve better as a human being. And like me, I know you'll be able to find a person who makes you feel special, good-looking, sexy, etc. Believe that you deserve that type of relationship and it will find you. It may not be for a while, seen as how you're 16. Comments may never stop. (After all, people like to be cruel to one another.) But don't believe the comments! Believe that you're an important, beautiful person who deserves to be treated that way.
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People are going to be mean in teen years. I am almost 14, and people always say mean things. Your teen years are a very awkward stage of your life (when it comes to how you feel and look). Maybe your nose is too big, or your too short but don't worry. The ugly duckling ended up growing into a beautiful swan. ;-)
-OH Yeah!!! I always get picked on too, but it doesn't really bother me. I know that I am a beautiful person inside and out. And that is how you should carry yourself.
-OH Yeah!!! I always get picked on too, but it doesn't really bother me. I know that I am a beautiful person inside and out. And that is how you should carry yourself.
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